irc333 Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 I actually had a woman that was in like a 3 year serious relationship with a guy, she's always flirting with me, and kissing me on the cheek in photo opps with groups of friends. (somehow they don't wind up on her Facebook gallery though, go figure) And one day she says, "If something happens with <boyfriends name>, I'm going to RUN off with you! I just learned she had become single again, I tried to start talking to her, only to be ignored of course. Guess she didn't keep her word, eh? lol Really, please don't. Today was another bummer. Super cute, really friendly girl shows up to Salsa class a little late. She's talking with her friend and another guy. She makes eye contact with me and we say hi. It seems the three of them are deciding who is going to dance with who. She pushes her friend to the guy and says, "I found my partner!" and walks over to me with a big smile. We exchange pleasantries. "How was your weekend?" "It was real fun, I went to a party." "What kind of party?" "A haloween party. My boyfriend and I dressed up." F-ing bitch! Of course I didn't say that to her but it's what I said in my head. I really thought that she was flirting with me the past couple weeks and that I may have had a chance. Thank God I didn't ask her out which I was probably going to do this week after I did a little more probing to find out if she was single. At least she saved me from doing the legwork. Frankly though, the level of flirting she was doing, definitely felt like she was leading me on. It's extremely frustrating to think that the a girl might like me then to find out she was just being friendly. I really wish girls would stop for a second and look at how guys would interpret her actions. Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted October 28, 2010 Share Posted October 28, 2010 And one day she says, "If something happens with <boyfriends name>, I'm going to RUN off with you! Well, again, this is an example of reading too much into it. She was in a relationship and she made a 'throw away' jokey comment, meaning she really likes you (nothing more!). If she liked you in the sexual sense she would never have said any such thing whilst involved with someone else - unless she was thinking of cheating, in which case she wouldn't have waited. Link to post Share on other sites
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