IfiKnewThen Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 yep don. good advise. might lose the initial battle, but God willing win the war. Link to post Share on other sites
Author natural2b Posted December 20, 2010 Author Share Posted December 20, 2010 well still going to counseling have not heard the word divorce in about a week. we are looking a new place about an hour from where we presently live. thing are definitely getting better. but we have along way to go. as a couple and as individuals. we are both working in the same direction. i will keep everyone updated. she has not said she did not want a divorce. but i do see a difference in her action and her plans are our plans and not hers. actions speak louder than words. I am just truly grateful and appricative of the women have in my life and will always make sure she knows how important she is and what she means to me and our family thank you again Link to post Share on other sites
IfiKnewThen Posted December 21, 2010 Share Posted December 21, 2010 so glad for some happy news. keep going ..God bless you and i hope and pray it all works out my friend. i just got the aweful new that he got married last night. saw it on a tweeter post. am so devastated. crying...stunned. ..........omg i am in shock. only 7 months ago he broke it off and still said he was in love with me. we were together for 10 years. have to log. so so so sad. i feel like i am in such a bad dream. such a freakish nightmare. show the ones you love that you love them . please please Link to post Share on other sites
AVR1962 Posted December 21, 2010 Share Posted December 21, 2010 Seek a couselor. At least you are saying you want to change and you see the problems that have results as a result of your actions, that one step in the right direction. Acknowledging it does nothing to change it and changing you on your own is not always easy. If your wife won't go to joint counseling, you need to at least try to make a chnage for a better you. Link to post Share on other sites
Don_da_Ho Posted December 21, 2010 Share Posted December 21, 2010 Good news for you Natural! Hey, maybe I was right for once! Keep doing what you were doing, clean the house, be the man, take care of business, don't complain and SHOW her you are different Link to post Share on other sites
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