jennatu Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 My ex colleague and I met at my previous work place but different teams. He is nice to everyone, and was especially nice to me, he often asked me to lunch and coffee with his team. Eventually a few weeks before the end of my term at that work place, he asked me out to golf, tennis and bike riding. Initially it was with a group, but gradually just the two of us. He invite me out to lunch and paid for me, so I invited him out to dinner, and he gladly came, and won't let me pay! It seem to get along so well, and often we would touch on the topic of relationship, and this is where things gets muddy. He always say "when i am single..." but never specified that he's actually single. His team mate actually told me he has a girlfriend a few weeks back, but he never mentioned her in any of our length and personal conservations. He does mention that he never dumped any of his ex-girlfriend, but try to convince them to leave him, and they all did it on their free will. A friend of mine is saying if this keep on going, we are going to hit the friendship zone, and i don't wanna be just friends?! What should I do? Ask him directly if he's single? My gut feeling is that he is not single. what if he says no? Does that mean I should just move on? But he's once in a million catch and i don't wanna give up! Link to post Share on other sites
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