chaz20 Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 right me and my gf have been with eachother for 2 years (1st year was just seeing eachother) and we are both at different uni's last night in a very very drunken state i kissed this girl (even tho she really came onto me, i should of stoped it) ive been having these feelings that im sort of missing out on uni life because i have a gf, but i do love my gf, but we rarely see eachother and its taring me apart i feel really really bad today, ive just had this sickening feeling because ive never cheated on any gf in the past we both agreed to tell eachother if anything ever happened, and due to this i really want to tell her, but she will be so heart broken, what should i do? Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted March 4, 2004 Share Posted March 4, 2004 Sometimes honesty isn't the kindest policy. If you feel compelled to tell her, go ahead. You can't be sure what her reaction will be. She may be understanding, or she may break up with you. You could keep quiet, not kiss any more girls, and your relationship with your girlfriend may or may not continue. I think the real problem is that you're worrying about the relationship itself. Do you feel you are missing out on the chance to date other girls? You can have a lot of fun, go to parties, etc., at college while in a relationship. But you don't feel connected to your girlfriend anymore, there could be a problem. If being with other girls interests you more than being in a relationship with your girlfriend, be honest with your girlfriend. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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