safeashouses Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 Starting to get really really down over this. My bf has a very short fuse with me and quite often shouts at me, twice Ive felt scared of him, he raises his voice to me or else just shouts. Or if he knows hes in the wrong turns on me and asks in an aggressive way whats wrong with me. I did used to cry at this, now ive started to quite some time ago, scrape myself as an outlet. I have zero self confidence, I always look to him for approval but I do know its something I wont ever get. The scraping makes me feel very good, makes me feel that Im actually alive. Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted November 1, 2010 Share Posted November 1, 2010 As its said, an unexamined life is not worth living...have you examined and worked towards strengthening some of your character inhibitions? I asked this because you have posted on various issues involving this relationship and at some point you gotta come to the realization that this person neither compliments your life or is what you are truly deserving of. Its unfortunate that you are in the muddle at presence . You have choices....Would you ask your friends to endure what you are currently enduring? Seriously love yourself and move away from this...If it means getting your own place ...and still casually dating this guy...then so be it....but your living drama with him is not aiding you one bit... Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 1, 2010 Share Posted November 1, 2010 twice Ive felt scared of him, he raises his voice to me or else just shouts. Or if he knows hes in the wrong turns on me and asks in an aggressive way whats wrong with me. Do yourself a favor and break up with this guy as soon as possible. Please know that this will escalate and pretty soon he will start hitting. You do not want to marry this guy or your life will be a living hell. Get out now while he is your bf, don't wait. Also when you leave don't tell him you are going or he might hurt you. Hopefully you don't live with this guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Leandro Posted November 1, 2010 Share Posted November 1, 2010 Do yourself a favor and break up with this guy as soon as possible. Please know that this will escalate and pretty soon he will start hitting. You do not want to marry this guy or your life will be a living hell. Get out now while he is your bf, don't wait. Also when you leave don't tell him you are going or he might hurt you. Hopefully you don't live with this guy. I agree with this poster. You deserve better than that. Leave him. Don't wait till next time. Next time might be worse. Link to post Share on other sites
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