Cuchara2 Posted November 2, 2010 Share Posted November 2, 2010 If you haven't followed my story, please go read my threads, however a little recap: Was with my ex for 2 years, great relationship, my and her first for most things, she went through a really hard time, I was always there for her until I got into loads of **** and I told her I can't help her out as much as I was. Come summer, she's acting weird, told me she wants a break (where we don't speak as much but we stay faithful). I said no, either we're 100% on or we break up - she said stay together. I read some texts on her phone which were dodgy, but I didn't want to draw conclusions too quick, so I ask to see her phone to which she says one sec and deletes all her messages (I didn't supposedly see her doing this). Red flag ftw. So she goes to Spain for holidays (where this guy she was texting is as well) and she cheats on me wiht a dude in a club. I find out, she doesn't know I found out. I ask her have you cheated on me, she said no, then I give her the evidence and she says it's over. A month passes, we meet up when she gets back and she says she only pecked him and she was going to tell me what she did when she came back so it could be face to face bla bla bla. BULL****. She says it wasn't planned.. BULL**** also. I've been no contacting her for 2 months now and she seems affected by it. I got with 2 of her friends (he he) and now I found out she might be coming back to me. I'm VERY ****ing angry at what she did, how she was secrative and how she basically planned all this crap out. I'm not sure if I'd want her back at this point. I guess that yes, I do, but I want to let her know how I feel, and how truly ****ing angry I am at her. Do I let her know? Do I just not hold back and tell her how bull****ty what she did was? Or do I say it in a calm way? Also I want to know what she's been up to in the past two months, and exactly what she did over summer (after we broke up too). How do I find out if it's the truth or if it's just total bull****? Thanks LS Link to post Share on other sites
Hhhh Posted November 2, 2010 Share Posted November 2, 2010 Theres no way you could really find out what she did for two months I guess all you could do is just believe her. Relationships grow on tryst one thing I have learned on these fourms Link to post Share on other sites
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