Author SithLord Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 I dunno it's one of those things, I'm not wishing for it honestly...I want things to happened naturally. I'm in this for the long run. Link to post Share on other sites
Nkognito Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 Seriously go pick up this book http://www.youtube.com/user/asecretagent?blend=2&ob=4 It has proven an interesting read. I was rading it while listening to a audio of something else and at the same time the principle of the book was being explained the guy on the audio was SAYING the exact same thing! I seriously think when we place ourself in a very good positive mental state we can radiate that "chi" to everything. As the book says, everything operates off a frequency, once we find it we can connect. Much like the song stuck in your head so much you can almost hear it, then to turn on the radio and to actually know its playing right then. I have had this happen on more than one occasion and the odds that I am thinking of a song in a playlist that I do not know is astounding. this thread is pretty good from a scientific standpoint. Link to post Share on other sites
durkadurka Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 I don't think my ex will ever come back. She's moving 500 miles away just because she wants to start over. Her job and family are here, so she has no reason to leave other than wanting to escape. Who knows, maybe I'll get a call when she gets there saying she misses me, but what good would come out of that? Indeed, atleast you didn't go visit her. I did. Cost me a ridiculous sum of money. I guess she didn't like to hear that I thought we should work on ourselves and then work on our relationship. 3 weeks later she was dating someone 50% older than her (11 years old). Vomit. Nothing good comes out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted November 6, 2010 Share Posted November 6, 2010 Indeed, atleast you didn't go visit her. I did. Cost me a ridiculous sum of money. I guess she didn't like to hear that I thought we should work on ourselves and then work on our relationship. 3 weeks later she was dating someone 50% older than her (11 years old). Vomit. Nothing good comes out of it. Yeah I've been following your posts. She definately took your trip for granted. You showed that you were willing to work at the relationship simply by going. Some people just avoid their problems, and I think my ex is one of them. She hasn't left yet and I don't know when she will. I imagine it will be at least a month, and for all I know she'll changer her mind about the whole enterprise. I don't think she'll be any happier down there, but what can ya do? The interesting thing is that as I understand it she'll be about an hour away from some friends of mine, so it wouldn't be completely out of my way to visit her. Not that I would. I'd never invite myself there and the only way she would know when I'm down there is if she were spying on me. But until I'm over her or she wants to get back together I don't want to see her anyway, so maybe it's for the best. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SithLord Posted November 6, 2010 Author Share Posted November 6, 2010 I don't think my ex coming back because her ex supposely likes big girls and my x got big towards the end thus resulting in one of the reasons I left towards the end because I try working with her two years on her weight and nothing. That was a mood killer, no hope of her coming back. Great! Faster I get in my head the better.... Link to post Share on other sites
dng Posted November 7, 2010 Share Posted November 7, 2010 That guy being there, clouds my judgment. When in reality it shouldn't matter. I mean she rebound to her X, during this time I shall disappear... That is very true, and there's a reason for that. Men tend to be very very competitive when it comes to mates and mating. Your brain will lie to you and push you to reconquer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SithLord Posted November 7, 2010 Author Share Posted November 7, 2010 True indeed....I'm working on fighting off the voices in my head.. Link to post Share on other sites
LittleMike Posted November 8, 2010 Share Posted November 8, 2010 I'm not kidding while writing this but... I read this post minutes ago and thought to myself: "i'm not a firm believer of this psychic connection mumbo jumbo". Minutes ago a really nice and beautiful girl i met yesterday called me. When i was about to get the phone, ex send's me a text message (which she never does). It really freaked me out, she hasn't contacted me in about 2 months. I guess i'm pretty much a believer now... Link to post Share on other sites
bestrong Posted November 8, 2010 Share Posted November 8, 2010 Interest that someone brought it up. It happens to my ex and I quite often even before we broke up. I would say something randomly and she would replied "ehh.. I was just thinking about the same thing". I don't know what's the possibility of 2 person thinking about cannabalism at the same time. ( I was't thinking of eating human flesh;)) I never know why, but she often asked me not to invade her mind. Anyway, after we broke up, whenever I start to doubt if I still love her or not, she poops up. Seems like she could feel it's safe to contact again at some point, but it definitely messe up my mind alot. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SithLord Posted November 8, 2010 Author Share Posted November 8, 2010 I'm not kidding while writing this but... I read this post minutes ago and thought to myself: "i'm not a firm believer of this psychic connection mumbo jumbo". Minutes ago a really nice and beautiful girl i met yesterday called me. When i was about to get the phone, ex send's me a text message (which she never does). It really freaked me out, she hasn't contacted me in about 2 months. I guess i'm pretty much a believer now... im tellin you guys, its the force. Its E S P, extra sensory perception. As i write this im fighting off hacking my X page and relapsing. I know everything I need to know...these morning glitches i swear. Link to post Share on other sites
selena_cat Posted November 8, 2010 Share Posted November 8, 2010 Seriously go pick up this book http://www.youtube.com/user/asecretagent?blend=2&ob=4 It has proven an interesting read. I was rading it while listening to a audio of something else and at the same time the principle of the book was being explained the guy on the audio was SAYING the exact same thing! I seriously think when we place ourself in a very good positive mental state we can radiate that "chi" to everything. As the book says, everything operates off a frequency, once we find it we can connect. Much like the song stuck in your head so much you can almost hear it, then to turn on the radio and to actually know its playing right then. I have had this happen on more than one occasion and the odds that I am thinking of a song in a playlist that I do not know is astounding. this thread is pretty good from a scientific standpoint. Yes i know that one! Also try the Law of Attraction,LOA/ Google it,theres a great post by this guy DNS. I'll send the URL. You have to be positive,this is a great post Sithlord,thanks. Selena LordCat Link to post Share on other sites
Author SithLord Posted November 8, 2010 Author Share Posted November 8, 2010 Thanks Selena, do you have any success story? Because patience is a killer with these things. I seriously want to pass, go months without contact... Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted November 18, 2010 Share Posted November 18, 2010 I really love this thread. In fact I love it so much that I've just reported the previous post to the administrator as spam. Link to post Share on other sites
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