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alwayswondering

I am 27, he was 36. He was perfect. Neither of us ever married, no kids, both had the future in mind. Had a great time together, thought we had found a long term relationship. After 2 months exactly, he told me he loved me, the next week, he left withought a trace, never called again, never answered the phone. Never had a fight, disagreement, nothing. I am very hurt, torn, mad, confused. I did not do anything. What in the world happened?

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Obviously, I can't say exactly what happened, but that sounds like something a commitment-phobe would pull. They come on strong and then run like hell. If you haven't read the book "Men Who Can't Love" I recommend it. Very good book on commitmentphobia. Again, without more information, it's hard to say exactly what took place. But just based on the info you gave, it sounds like a commitment-phobe scenario.

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It sounds like a classic hit and run. I know how you feel, but be grateful that he pulled the stunt within two months, not 2 years down the road.

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