Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 Hi Ladies and Gents . I feel like spicing up my Sex life/relationship this weekend. Ladies, what is something you do to drive your man nuts? Guys, what's something a woman has done that has really turned you on? We have been living together for over 2 years and I'm always looking for new ways to keep our relationship exciting and 'fresh'. Your suggestion may be meaningful, flirty or sexual.. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 Well, given that it's high summer where you are, how about going out with him, and you wearing a nice pretty frock, then telling him, "Feel this....no underwear....and feeling juicy......!" then play with yourself in the car while he's driving......maybe take a vibe with you.... Or waking him up with a BJ..... and then not letting him touch you all day while you masturbate and drive yourself nuts.... The evening should be fun....!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 Well, given that it's high summer where you are, how about going out with him, and you wearing a nice pretty frock, then telling him, "Feel this....no underwear....and feeling juicy......!" then play with yourself in the car while he's driving......maybe take a vibe with you.... Or waking him up with a BJ..... and then not letting him touch you all day while you masturbate and drive yourself nuts.... The evening should be fun....!! Hi Tara! I like your thinking honey! I've done this stuff before, but all together in one day will definitely drive him nuts! I bet you drive men crazy . Yes, a day of teasing will be so much fun! It's actually been cold here (down south), but it looks like we're in for a sunny weekend and I've bought so many nice summer frocks online over winter that I'm dying to wear. It's like you read my thoughts! Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
just_some_guy Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 Drive him nuts? Like hiding the remote control nuts? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 Drive him nuts? Like hiding the remote control nuts? Hahaha! No, drive him nuts (in a good way). Yeah, I just realised some people might read the title and misinterpret. When I've really turned him on he says 'you're driving me nuts'. I could hide the remote on me and make him fetch it *giggles* Link to post Share on other sites
Buglemn Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 My wife has a really hot dress you can borrow Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 My wife has a really hot dress you can borrow Hi Buglemn, Thanks! I have a walk in robe full of dresses. I have a dress fetish and a bikini fetish as well! I'll certainly be wearing a dress this weekend, because we're in for the first warm weekend we've had in ages. Yay! Maybe your wife and I could swap and borrow each other's dresses Link to post Share on other sites
Buglemn Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 Hi Buglemn, Thanks! I have a walk in robe full of dresses. I have a dress fetish and a bikini fetish as well! I'll certainly be wearing a dress this weekend, because we're in for the first warm weekend we've had in ages. Yay! Maybe your wife and I could swap and borrow each other's dresses Sounds like whatever you do for your man will be great. My wife's dress was a joke. I posted the thread "Wife went to Vegas" just under yours. Take care and hope your weekend is memorable. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 Sounds like whatever you do for your man will be great. My wife's dress was a joke. I posted the thread "Wife went to Vegas" just under yours. Take care and hope your weekend is memorable. Oh, yes, I see Buglemn. Sorry to hear about you problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 Not to be a wet blanket or anything but I worry when a woman gets such an idea into her head. I don't know if it's me or a guy thing but what I want most is to just be happy. Here's where things can go wrong (it's just been my horrid experience so please don't internalize what I'm saying to yourself))--my g/f would get these impulses to make things "special", do what is in her head that SHE thought SHOULD provoke a specific response and then engage in neurotic analysis of whether or not her vision of "specialness" played out the way she concocted it for the time she expected it to play out. All along I was already pleased as hell just to be with her and be loving and expressive--normality was heaven to me. That was MY vision of what a special time with her was going to be--just us showing our appreciation for having each other and being emotionally well. It was ALREADY special and her "making it SPECIAL" was putting artifical expectations on us that I did not contract for. There was no way out for me to stop this from repeating over and over either--it brought us to end our relationship. I'm not being critical here and saying that this is always the way I unforrtunately experienced it--there is just caution I risk sharing here that one might do well to consider. Sure, do the little extras that might make things a bit more momentous than every day life but consider that there is a danger of doing too much which can inflate expectations and cause the opposite of what is hoped for--at worst a spat with hard feelings or contempt for your partner for not responding the way you expect. Good luck and be happy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 Not to be a wet blanket or anything but I worry when a woman gets such an idea into her head. I don't know if it's me or a guy thing but what I want most is to just be happy. Here's where things can go wrong (it's just been my horrid experience so please don't internalize what I'm saying to yourself))--my g/f would get these impulses to make things "special", do what is in her head that SHE thought SHOULD provoke a specific response and then engage in neurotic analysis of whether or not her vision of "specialness" played out the way she concocted it for the time she expected it to play out. All along I was already pleased as hell just to be with her and be loving and expressive--normality was heaven to me. That was MY vision of what a special time with her was going to be--just us showing our appreciation for having each other and being emotionally well. It was ALREADY special and her "making it SPECIAL" was putting artifical expectations on us that I did not contract for. There was no way out for me to stop this from repeating over and over either--it brought us to end our relationship. I'm not being critical here and saying that this is always the way I unforrtunately experienced it--there is just caution I risk sharing here that one might do well to consider. Sure, do the little extras that might make things a bit more momentous than every day life but consider that there is a danger of doing too much which can inflate expectations and cause the opposite of what is hoped for--at worst a spat with hard feelings or contempt for your partner for not responding the way you expect. Good luck and be happy. Thank you Frisky Man lol. Your ex sounds pretty messed up! This is meant to be light hearted. If I don't get the desired response, s*** happens! I'll just know not to bother with that approach again. When I try something spontaneous, like dressing up in lingerie, going to the beach with him and getting naked and letting him do a photo shoot, teasing him etc. he ALWAYS loves it. That's why I'm so comfortable trying new things with him. I wouldn't let this type of thing turn into an argument. If he didn't appear interested, I would put it down to, he has far too much work on his plate at the moment. Yes, he's more than happy just to spend time with me, he's a real home body. I just really don't want to be a boring couple! I was simply looking for new ideas, cause I feel like we've just about done it all . I need some more excitment Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted November 5, 2010 Share Posted November 5, 2010 Thank you Frisky Man lol. Your ex sounds pretty messed up! This is meant to be light hearted. If I don't get the desired response, s*** happens! I'll just know not to bother with that approach again. When I try something spontaneous, like dressing up in lingerie, going to the beach with him and getting naked and letting him do a photo shoot, teasing him etc. he ALWAYS loves it. That's why I'm so comfortable trying new things with him. I wouldn't let this type of thing turn into an argument. If he didn't appear interested, I would put it down to, he has far too much work on his plate at the moment. Yes, he's more than happy just to spend time with me, he's a real home body. I just really don't want to be a boring couple! I was simply looking for new ideas, cause I feel like we've just about done it all . I need some more excitment Somehow I knew you'd take me well. You're a sport and an LS keeper, Bec, if you don't mind me saying so. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 Sounds like whatever you do for your man will be great. My wife's dress was a joke. I posted the thread "Wife went to Vegas" just under yours. Take care and hope your weekend is memorable. Errr, I wrote a long post for your thread before, then my computer crashed and I lost it! Basically, don't listen to these people accusing your wife of having an affair. There is far too little evidence and she might very well have been just hiding the fact that she wore something tarty out knowing that you don't like it. There's a lot of people who have been cheated on here and now have trust issues and are super paranoid. I'm not saying that she didn't cheat, I'm just saying, wait till you have more evidence before accusing her. I didn't like that she went to the bar with these strippers, but trust me, these strippers have women throwing themselves at them. As hot as your wife sounds, she would have had a lot of other hot women to compete with if she wanted them, I promise you that. I also like to dress up when I go out with the girls, just to feel good about myself. Yes, I get lots of attention from guys and I tell them all where to go. I am 100% loyal to my man, I have NEVER in my life cheated and I promise you, I never will, but I still like to look hot when I go out. Best of luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bec_downunder Posted November 5, 2010 Author Share Posted November 5, 2010 Somehow I knew you'd take me well. You're a sport and an LS keeper, Bec, if you don't mind me saying so. Cheers Frisky Man, same to you Link to post Share on other sites
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