Really concerned about my family's safety.

[wingman2]

To make a long story short, my older sister has been in an abusive relationship with a guy for 4 years now who is far older than her (she's in her mid 20's, him mid 30's) and she has since been very obsessed with this guy regardless of the fact of how bad he treats her. They lived together for 3 years until last summer when my sister had to move out and move back home with me and the rest of my family. The reason is that my parents could no longer pay the bill (both her and her boyfriend were lazy unemployed drug addicts) so she's back in with us until she can get over him and find a job to get on her feet.

 

There's more to them just being drug addicts though, her boyfriend was (maybe still is) a drug dealer who has connections to some very dangerous people. Well my sis has been apart from this guy for a while and considering he's been in jail, we've heard rumors that he's completely clean now. However earlier this afternoon we got a phone call from some guy. I at first thought it was perhaps a business call but I was very surprised by who it turned out to be. It was one of my sister's boyfriend's drug suppliers who supplied the drugs for him to sell. The reason this is scary is because I know this is a very dangerous man, he has killed people and is known to kill people and I have no idea how on earth he got our number.

 

He was calling to speak to my sister, I'm not going to give out any details about what he said but he did make up some story to make it seem as if it were something not to be too concerned over. He continued to ask when she'll be available and when he can give a call back. He will not call back today however I'm really worried about what's going on and as to why he called or how he found our number.

 

This could very well not just put my sister in trouble but my whole family. Perhaps I'm just overreacting about all this but I don't want that man to know our phone number and especially not know where we live.

 

I felt like I needed to tell someone and I can't just tell people I know here whom I'm close to so I'm telling anyone here willing to hear me out. Is this a big concern? Should I be worried and try to call the authorities which may or may not be a bad idea? I don't know but I'm very concerned about my safety and the safety of the rest of my family. I'm not sure if her boyfriend has anything to do with this considering he doesn't like us and we don't like him but regardless I really don't want that guy to ever call us again but in case he does should I just ignore his call or would it be wise to answer? I really need all the help I can get.

[Angel1111]

This would concern me a great deal, too. I do think it's possible, though, that your sister may have given that number to that guy. Let's hope not.

 

I don't think it would do any good to call the police but it may be worth a try. I mean the guy hasn't done anything but if they're looking for him, maybe you could lead them to him.

 

I think you should tell the rest of your family about this phone call. I wouldn't want a known killer knowing my phone number, or anything else about me, either.

[turnera]

Call the police; let them know what he's doing.

 

The best thing you can do for your family is to help them become legal observers.