When somebody says "lower your standards" or "stay in your league"

[brainygirl]

I was wondering when the morality team would arrive. First we had the grammar team. Then we had the "why can't a woman be attracted to confidence " team and now we have the morality team.

 

And we have the fat team that is bitterly against women with "shallow" mentalities.

 

I just don't want those mentalities applied to me.

[Akherousia]

Jack Nicholson was a compelling force with the ladies BEFORE he was rich, famous and powerful. His inner power was one of the very reasons he attained the stature of rich, famous, powerful movie star.

 

If you can't see this in your daily life ... you must not be a very observant girl, Akherousia. Or you just don't get out much.

 

 

And I'm sure Tim Allen was a force to watch with the ladies before he achieved stardom. I do see several young, attractive women with older, balding and fat men.

 

Is it the strong personality or the audi these men have waiting for them?

 

Or is it the fatness around the waist that gets these women going?

[sweetjasmine]

And it is nto due to media pressure; it is natural attraction levels that are innate.

 

Then explain why the Rubenesque figure was once seen as the height of beauty. Why did it take mankind hundreds or even thousands of years to figure out what is innately attractive?

[brainygirl]

Then explain why the Rubenesque figure was once seen as the height of beauty. Why did it take mankind hundreds or even thousands of years to figure out what is innately attractive?

 

Leigh is a recovering anorexic, please don't engage her, she really does have a warped perspective on women's bodies.

[sweetjasmine]

Leigh is a recovering anorexic, please don't engage her, she really does have a warped perspective on women's bodies.

 

Oh, sorry, I missed that.

 

I'll drop it, then. Thanks.

[Leigh 87]

Leigh is a recovering anorexic, please don't engage her, she really does have a warped perspective on women's bodies.

 

 

Get your facts right, just because I think slim looks better, it does not mean I have a warped percection; I see things as they are. I do not think normal is fat. I do not see a thin women, and view her as larger than she is. I see reality as it is.

 

I have simply always thought thinner bodies are more attractive to look at than thick builds. I am artistic and visual, and have always had that preference. Since early childhood. Before I considered my own body.

 

Having a preference for slender, long limbed body types is nothing to do with having a " warped percetion" or " eating disorder".

 

Lastly, I have nto had anorexia, I actually developed an EATING disorder, before it escalated into anorexia, and I happened to keep the ED for a few years.

 

Please stop purporting to know me so readily; having an eating disorder and liking thin looking women does not necessarily mean one has a warped perception; I never thought I was fat, and I do not see things as being fatter than they really are. I just think thin bodies are more feminine than thick ones.

 

Really, your condescending tone p*sses me off, because you do not have one ounce of knowledge regarding the pro anna thing - having an eating disorder does not meen girls like me venerate extreame thinnesss; however, some of us simply like a slim look, without it being unhealthy.

[Content]

I was always confused by the stay whitin your league thing

 

How do you know what your "league" is?

 

Do people have im a 5 stamped on their heads and if you have a 5 on your head you approach?

 

Its all so subjective

[theBrokenMuse]

I was wondering when the morality team would arrive. First we had the grammar team. Then we had the "why can't a woman be attracted to confidence " team and now we have the morality team.

 

And we have the fat team that is bitterly against women with "shallow" mentalities.

Nothing to do with morality at all... I'll clue you in to what I was referring to. The average human being is no prize. We pretty much suck as a species really - too few interesting souls about and far too many drones that are perfectly content to live in a stupor of intellectual atrophy, mediocrity and self-absorption. By all means continue with your obvious trolling efforts as they amuse me in my boredom.

 

xoxoxo,

BrokenMuse

one awesome yet bored fatty

[112233]

I like slender women because I think their bodies are mroe attractive to look at. I have since I was a young kid. It does not always have anything to do with MEDIA pressure, although some people feel pressure to have a " trophy" girlfriend, or " arm candy".

 

 

Yeah fat chicks are gross, cellulite is disgusting, but this is a pretty pink and American forum. Probably a lot of fat chicks here who want us to "lower our standards" but nope, won't do it. I haven't dated a chick over 110 pounds in a long time,; can't like it, won't try it.

[brainygirl]

Get your facts right, just because I think slim looks better, it does not mean I have a warped percection; I see things as they are. I do not think normal is fat. I do not see a thin women, and view her as larger than she is. I see reality as it is.

 

I have simply always thought thinner bodies are more attractive to look at than thick builds. I am artistic and visual, and have always had that preference. Since early childhood. Before I considered my own body.

 

Having a preference for slender, long limbed body types is nothing to do with having a " warped percetion" or " eating disorder".

 

Lastly, I have nto had anorexia, I actually developed an EATING disorder, before it escalated into anorexia, and I happened to keep the ED for a few years.

 

Please stop purporting to know me so readily; having an eating disorder and liking thin looking women does not necessarily mean one has a warped perception; I never thought I was fat, and I do not see things as being fatter than they really are. I just think thin bodies are more feminine than thick ones.

 

Really, your condescending tone p*sses me off, because you do not have one ounce of knowledge regarding the pro anna thing - having an eating disorder does not meen girls like me venerate extreame thinnesss; however, some of us simply like a slim look, without it being unhealthy.

 

That certainly clears things up.

[Leigh 87]

Can you tell me what is warped about thinking a slender, 5 ' 4 or taller girl with long limbs with a pretty face and hour glass figure is the most attractive body type?

 

Again, I do not see people as " fat" if they are outside my what I consider to be MOST attractive.

 

Lastly, I do not strive to attain the thin body type myself - I make the most of MY natural body type. While I admire slimmer body types and thinkt hat with a pretty face, they are the most attratcive on the league scale, I do not ever think that I will attain a body that is not my own. Besides, it is not physically possible to change your body from its natural size. Those who do still do not look good when they weigh the same as slender, long limbed women I find most attractive, because they starve themselves to get there, and their body frame makes them look too thin and unhealthy at the same weight as the women who naturally have small bones.

 

Now, BRAINY GIRL, from now on, you can stop claiming that I am pro anna, like starving chicks, and think normal is fat; I do not think normal is attractive, but I do not think it is FAT either. There is a different between thinking something is attractive or not, and actually feeling that normal is fat.

 

And stop assuming that I strive to me like the women I think are more attractive. it is what it is. I make the most of what I have. sheesh.

[Akherousia]

Nothing to do with morality at all... I'll clue you in to what I was referring to. The average human being is no prize. We pretty much suck as a species really - too few interesting souls about and far too many drones that are perfectly content to live in a stupor of intellectual atrophy, mediocrity and self-absorption. By all means continue with your obvious trolling efforts as they amuse me in my boredom.

 

xoxoxo,

BrokenMuse

one awesome yet bored fatty

 

You're displaying a complex of inferiority. You bring down the whole of Mankind because you don't like something about yourself.

 

You choose to see the world in dark colours. I see the world filled with men like Brad Pitt, Robert Redford, Alain Delon and Christian Bale.

 

I see a world filled with Boticellis and Da Vincis and Hemingways and Mark Twains.

 

Yes, many human beings aren't worth my time. I don't bother with those. I'm interested in pursuing my desires and I have no qualms in saying what I want to say, I have no problem in being how am I.

 

What people think of me like some guy telling me that I'm used up because I don't want to save myself for "marriage" or what a woman is trying to make me look like when she tells me that I am shallow because I want to only bang hot men.

 

It makes me human. To actually accept what I am and be proudful of my nature.

 

I guess honesty is not a trait found in most people. That's life.

[112233]

Can you tell me what is warped about thinking a slender, 5 ' 4 or taller girl with long limbs with a pretty face and hour glass figure is the most attractive body type?

 

Nope. Nothing wrong with that. I think thin looks feminine and so to me, thin men look effeminate, powerless, weak. Thin women look sexy.

[Green]

Once again, I don't think that you can speak with any serious authority on what "the majority" of men like. We all know what YOU think is the most attractive, Leigh.

 

I won't argue that what you describe is pretty, and good for marketing.

 

Look in a magazine if you want to understand what THE MAJORITY find good looking. They use thin women some times edited to be imposibly thin to SELL their merchandise. They do it to ATTRACT PEOPLE.

 

Leigh is a recovering anorexic, please don't engage her, she really does have a warped perspective on women's bodies.

 

I could say the same about you but for different reasons.

 

Can you tell me what is warped about thinking a slender, 5 ' 4 or taller girl with long limbs with a pretty face and hour glass figure is the most attractive body type?

 

Again, I do not see people as " fat" if they are outside my what I consider to be MOST attractive.

 

Lastly, I do not strive to attain the thin body type myself - I make the most of MY natural body type. While I admire slimmer body types and thinkt hat with a pretty face, they are the most attratcive on the league scale, I do not ever think that I will attain a body that is not my own. Besides, it is not physically possible to change your body from its natural size. Those who do still do not look good when they weigh the same as slender, long limbed women I find most attractive, because they starve themselves to get there, and their body frame makes them look too thin and unhealthy at the same weight as the women who naturally have small bones.

 

Now, BRAINY GIRL, from now on, you can stop claiming that I am pro anna, like starving chicks, and think normal is fat; I do not think normal is attractive, but I do not think it is FAT either. There is a different between thinking something is attractive or not, and actually feeling that normal is fat.

 

And stop assuming that I strive to me like the women I think are more attractive. it is what it is. I make the most of what I have. sheesh.

 

If I came on here and wrote about how women like TALL men no doubt some one would argue with me. Fatness is a very touchy subject and most of the people who attack you are probably dealing with it I know for a fact some of them are.

 

BUTTTT this is a thread about "lower your standards" and as that applies to women it most likely means DATE FATTER WOMEN. When some idiot tells a guy to lower his standars it communicates Date FAT/UGLY women.

 

Thats what means when u say that to a guy. If you say to a guy "She is out of your league" it basicaly means "shes a cheerleader" or basicly "shes got a great body" (NOT FAT)

[Leigh 87]

Nope. Nothing wrong with that. I think thin looks feminine and so to me, thin men look effeminate, powerless, weak. Thin women look sexy.

 

 

I agree with you. BRAINY GIRL thinks people like you, who state your views, feed me so called " anorexia" . She also thinks that all 110 lbs women are emaciated.

 

She is just ignorant as to the fact that some women ar enaturally small boned, and these are the women who DO look hot at 110 lbs, with their long limbed and petite bodies.

 

You and I think it looks hot and feminine ( if it is natural of course, and the women is not a big boned women who is starving herself to be thin).

 

I think the thin loook is more attractive ( providing the women has a pretty face), yet hearing guys like YOU voice this opinion also, does not make ME want to starve myseld to be thin.

 

I accept what I am, even though it I do not have the body type that I consider to be the most attractive.

[Kamille]

 

I see a world filled with Boticellis and Da Vincis and Hemingways and Mark Twains.

 

 

Oooh yes, they were all hot babes.

[Kamille]

I agree with you. BRAINY GIRL thinks people like you, who state your views, feed me so called " anorexia" . She also thinks that all 110 lbs women are emaciated.

 

She is just ignorant as to the fact that some women ar enaturally small boned, and these are the women who DO look hot at 110 lbs, with their long limbed and petite bodies.

 

You and I think it looks hot and feminine ( if it is natural of course, and the women is not a big boned women who is starving herself to be thin).

 

I think the thin loook is more attractive ( providing the women has a pretty face), yet hearing guys like YOU voice this opinion also, does not make ME want to starve myseld to be thin.

 

I accept what I am, even though it I do not have the body type that I consider to be the most attractive.

 

112233 created his or her account today to contribute some pretty bleak views about women. S.He is trolling.

[threebyfate]

Oooh yes, they were all hot babes.

Good luck with Da Vinci. Rumour has it...

[Kamille]

Good luck with Da Vinci. Rumour has it...

 

In honor of Movember, I was thinking of crushing on Mark Twain. Ooh, that mustache!

[Cracker Jack]

Wow. You're beautiful, threebyfate.

 

*Off-topic, but it's already been downhill since, um, yeah*

[112233]

I agree with you. BRAINY GIRL thinks people like you, who state your views, feed me so called " anorexia" . She also thinks that all 110 lbs women are emaciated.

 

She is just ignorant as to the fact that some women ar enaturally small boned, and these are the women who DO look hot at 110 lbs, with their long limbed and petite bodies.

 

You and I think it looks hot and feminine ( if it is natural of course, and the women is not a big boned women who is starving herself to be thin).

 

I think the thin loook is more attractive ( providing the women has a pretty face), yet hearing guys like YOU voice this opinion also, does not make ME want to starve myseld to be thin.

 

I accept what I am, even though it I do not have the body type that I consider to be the most attractive.

 

I like women to be at a healthy weight, and slim. Everyone can be at a healthy weight and slim, and I know it's not necessary to be slim to be healthy, but to be an attractive woman, it has to be both.

 

Similarly, men can be slender and healthy, but not in my view, very masculine.

 

I like petite women, and so 100 pounds isn't "skinny" but for a taller woman it could definitely be.

 

 

 

112233 created his or her account today to contribute some pretty bleak views about women. S.He is trolling.

 

Yeah. Someone joined with an opinion so he's trolling. Sure. Why not just call me a homophobe while you're trying to smear me?

[theBrokenMuse]

You're displaying a complex of inferiority. You bring down the whole of Mankind because you don't like something about yourself.

No, it has nothing with how I percieve myself and everything about how I view our race as a whole. Let's look at reality on it's own terms for a moment... most of the population aren't Mark Twains, Albert Einsteins or whatever Hollywood hunk most suits your fancy. Most of the people on this planet are quite unremarkable unless discussing the potential for displaying obnoxiously ignorant and/or dangerously stupid behavior. We tend to outdo ourselves continuously there.

 

Yes, many human beings aren't worth my time.

That totally validates my prior statement and means that all that glass half full crap was just arguing for arguments sake.

 

 

I'm interested in pursuing my desires and I have no qualms in saying what I want to say, I have no problem in being how am I.

And this was brought up why exactly?

 

What people think of me like some guy telling me that I'm used up because I don't want to save myself for "marriage" or what a woman is trying to make me look like when she tells me that I am shallow because I want to only bang hot men.

It is shallow if your only desire is to bang hot men... there is no depth to such an act but if you have no problem with it, then one should just accept it as shallow and move on.

 

It makes me human.

nah, that's just your DNA.

 

To actually accept what I am and be proudful of my nature.

Accept what you are sure. Being proud of your nature is another thing entirely. We are just hairless apes after all and a lot of our nature is little more than behaving as such (still too much of the equivalent of poo fling behaviors going on for beings with the brain capacity we possess and it's an embarrassment). I think if we want to survive as a species we have to strive for better.

[northern_sky]

Jack Nicholson was a compelling force with the ladies BEFORE he was rich, famous and powerful. His inner power was one of the very reasons he attained the stature of rich, famous, powerful movie star.

 

If you can't see this in your daily life ... you must not be a very observant girl, Akherousia. Or you just don't get out much.

 

True, Jack Nicholson has what's called charisma: a mixture of extreme confidence, intelligence, humor and charm. It doesn't matter that he's not stereotypically handsome. Even if he had a regular job, he could still have his pick of women.

[Green]

Wow. You're beautiful, threebyfate.

 

*Off-topic, but it's already been downhill since, um, yeah*

 

You should see what I look like

[D-Lish]

I like petite women, and so 100 pounds isn't "skinny" but for a taller woman it could definitely be.

 

Dude, when I was 105lbs at 5'7" strangers were yelling at me to "eat a sandwich".