longlegzs80 Posted March 6, 2004 Share Posted March 6, 2004 I want a change in my life despiritly, but don't have the motivation nor the ambition or anything to go about changing anything when I know I need a change. I find myself not wanting to go out at all and as much as it is because of money reasons and the lack there of I just don't end up doing anything. When people ask me what I did on the weekends I want to be busy, but I am never doing anything. I want that to change, I want to get a life, but really don't know what to do. The ambition, or motivation to do anything is just not there. Anyone else have this problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted March 6, 2004 Share Posted March 6, 2004 I think you are depressed. You a a good person, you are nice, smart and attarctive, you have simply let yourself fall into a mental catch-22 and need to get out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted March 6, 2004 Share Posted March 6, 2004 longlegz; many of us have suggested you might be depressed. Long ago, you said you would see a physician, but you still have not. A life will just not drop into your lap; you have to at least get out of your rut enough to help yourself. SEE A PHYSICIAN. Quit coming up with excuses, just go - or you'll end up still posting the same thing years from now. Link to post Share on other sites
Durden Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 Yeah see a doctor! Bet your thinking its too much hassle, and he/she wont listen to me. I've been there. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 ....and as much as it is because of money reasons.... I just combed thru your post to see if this was in there. I had a feeling money/insurance was part of the problem. As much as I truly sympathize, having been in that boat myself, I still think there must be a way to break through the issue somehow. PM me if you need help figuring it out, if need be. Link to post Share on other sites
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