i need some advice on how to move on!! if guys can answer that would be great!

[LostWithoutYou]

ok im a mess! here is how my story begins.. me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. We dated for a year and we were pretty serious. I was def. in love i can say that much. Well after 4 months i am still in love with him, i still cry over him, and i still want him back terribly! today we were supposed to hang out, he got off of work at 3 and said he would call me when he gets home.. well its now 6:00 and he still hasnt called! im a wreak! i love him so much!!! i want him to love me back soooooo badly!!! WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO!?!?!?!?! i keep on hoping he will take me back, his best friend told me the other day that he still had feelings for me, so i stepped in and we started talking again.. we havent talked since like january so it was a big step!! ive tried dating other guys and its just impossible for me, i love my ex way too much! please give me some advice~* i dont care if its mean.. sometimes the truth hurts and maybe thats what i need to hear!

[Shanny555]

Boy, I just got chewed out on my post from befuddled. Hopefully he won't write you because he'll have you crying by the time you finish his response.

What I was thinking about your post was you do know his best friend tells him everything you say? That is not good. He may have told your ex that you were asking about him, and now he feels the pressure of you wanting him back rather than the two of your having a pleasant dinner or something. I am a female, so hopefully some men will write you. I know I want my ex back big time and I was just called a stalker!!!!!! I know the advice somebody will give you will be to leave your house, or don't answer your phone when he does call. I feel for you because those are impossible things to do. You want to just stare at the phone and hope it rings. I don't know what to tell you to do, but I know you can't help your feelings and you have every right to continue to hope things will work out.

Sometimes men just say things to passify you, so maybe he isn't going to call. Maybe he just said that to please you, then when his friend told him you were asking about him again in a romantic sense, maybe it scared him into not calling you now. I wouldn't talk to the friend anymore. He probably enjoys knowing that you miss him...it helps his ego. You sound as confused as I do and I don't like most of the advice I get, but I do think you should not answer if he calls tonight. Let him be confused and wonder where you are. It will surprise him that you are not sitting there waiting on his call...It's tough, I know.