Iselia Posted November 16, 2010 Share Posted November 16, 2010 Tomorrow makes 3 months NC. We've been broken up for 7 months. We were together for almost 4 years. I've been really struggling lately because I really want to break NC. :/ Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted November 17, 2010 Share Posted November 17, 2010 I am not finding NC difficult at all. Why the hell would I want to have anything to do with her? Sure I am lonely often but I would rather be alone than with that cheating skank. This post is brought to you by grief stage 2, and the letters F, U, C, K, O, F and F Link to post Share on other sites
LoveTruthChaos Posted November 17, 2010 Share Posted November 17, 2010 ^^^^ LMAOOOOOO @ PegNosePete :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Username37 Posted November 17, 2010 Share Posted November 17, 2010 This post is brought to you by grief stage 2, and the letters F, U, C, K, O, F and F 0_o my virgin eyes haha way to beat the censors Link to post Share on other sites
Author fun2bewith Posted November 22, 2010 Author Share Posted November 22, 2010 THE FIRST 28 If you can make 28 days, you can successfully get your smile back...just make sure you live your life while the 28 days pass... This is just to encourage everyone that is going through a tough time and consider taking a sip of the "make contact alcohol". I am not at 28 days yet I am only at 16. Lets see how many people can we encourage! Post your power.... I am at 28 today!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Fermentum Posted December 3, 2010 Share Posted December 3, 2010 Day 28! I've been waiting for this day for a while. It's been a lot harder than I thought, lots of ups and downs emotionally. But it's getting easier. Day by Day. Now...to Day 90! Link to post Share on other sites
Gdunkman Posted December 6, 2010 Share Posted December 6, 2010 A bit more then a month NC and I'm sure my self respect won't let me contact her. She won't contact me as well, as far as we ended up almost enemies. The holiday time is coming and I know this year it won't be as romantic and magic as the last one with my ex, but I feel ok about it, as I know it's just such a period in my life and it will change. Link to post Share on other sites
Author fun2bewith Posted January 25, 2011 Author Share Posted January 25, 2011 3 Months of NC.... I told myself I will wait 3 months before I am aloud to make contact again...Right now I don't feel like making contact...but now I am aloud to make contact.... ...but now the urge to make contact is gone.... Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 3 Months of NC.... I told myself I will wait 3 months before I am aloud to make contact again...Right now I don't feel like making contact...but now I am aloud to make contact.... ...but now the urge to make contact is gone.... Why allow yourself to contact them again at all? Have they tried to contact you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author fun2bewith Posted January 25, 2011 Author Share Posted January 25, 2011 Why allow yourself to contact them again at all? Have they tried to contact you? Sadly not at all..... But I always believe that you have one last call...I know I can mess things up, ask the wrong questions and say the wrong things, but I feel in control of my emotions...don't really feel like contacting her...I also know that I can control what I say and what I ask... If you were me, would you use that last phone call Ajax? Link to post Share on other sites
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Jake99 Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 Hey everyone, I will try and keep this short but for those of you are pinning, hoping and begging to get back with your ex, stop focusing your attention on them and put wasted energy on yourself. I was devastated when my ex-gf walked out of my life and I had no one to turn to. I read many people's advice who are on this site and I took it and ran with it! NC, NC, NC!!! It sucked at first but I pushed myself to get to the gym and start working out. The best medicine in the world!! My diet changed, started eating better and could feel it! My self confidence came back stronger than before and my attention started to be on me. Best shape I have ever been in and now I see the benefits of the hard work! 7 weeks of NC and and feeling great! Went on a date with a wonderful lady over the weekend and it only showed me that I am doing ok! The best advice I can offer is to be you! Find that person you were before you even met your ex and bring that person back. Work out because it will amaze you on how you will feel. Work hard everyone and focus on you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
J0N Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 Sadly not at all..... But I always believe that you have one last call...I know I can mess things up, ask the wrong questions and say the wrong things, but I feel in control of my emotions...don't really feel like contacting her...I also know that I can control what I say and what I ask... If you were me, would you use that last phone call Ajax? I don't mean to butt in. And I'm obviously not Ajax, but after reading your post. I would not make that last call, there really is nothing you can say to help the situation. If your ex wanted you back they would have reached out by now. I would wait until your romantic feelings for your ex fade away before making any contact, otherwise your just setting yourself up to be disappointed/ open old wounds. Just my $.02 Link to post Share on other sites
radrluv72 Posted January 28, 2011 Share Posted January 28, 2011 THE FIRST 28 If you can make 28 days, you can successfully get your smile back...just make sure you live your life while the 28 days pass... This is just to encourage everyone that is going through a tough time and consider taking a sip of the "make contact alcohol". I am not at 28 days yet I am only at 16. Lets see how many people can we encourage! Post your power.... I am officially on day 28 today. I've not attempted to contact him whatsoever, and I haven't heard from him either. It's so great to feel like I have myself back again...although sometimes, I still feel how much love I have in my heart for my ex. But, I owe it myself to move on. I've met a couple of great guys since then, and I'm totally up for dating again. I find it funny though, how it was just this week that some of my friends have started asking me if I've heard from my ex. This Sunday will mark 8 weeks since we split up...2 months. Strange how it feels longer than that. Link to post Share on other sites
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