uongy Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 ive posted previously about the problems that my friend is experiencing. but im posting to try get help in talking to her in the coming difficult months. last week,i asked her about how her granmother was(who is terminally ill)and i have to admit that i made a mess of things by being in a bad mood and sort of lashing out at a comment she made. she was upset and i did aplogise straight after.i was trying to say to her that she can talk to me if she wanted about anything in order to lend my support as a friend whom i care about. she was obviously upset by the illness of her gran and she was cried during our conversation.it was really moving and has affected me. she did request just to be normal around her and not to mention the gran issue as she doesnt want to think about it more than she obviously will.this of course i respet and will observe. but its hard now to make conversation with her.ive tried to make conversation on the next few occasions we have talked but cannot get the conversation back to previous levels.its obvious that shes not talkin so much as she usually does. what can i do?its often a two-way conversation between us and i find it difficult to lead talkin.any advice on how to kick-start conversation? thanks for any help. _________________ uongy. Link to post Share on other sites
Samson Posted March 7, 2004 Share Posted March 7, 2004 I'd like to reply, but cannot think of anything to say to you. Link to post Share on other sites
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