Stay or Leave?

[Bbranco]

Im a 37 year old married for the past 15 years and with 2 children 16 and 13.

Me and my husband have fell apart along the years and at this point I met another man who I feel good with and gives me the attention and the love I always dreamed of. I have known this person for a year now and my husband is aware of this relation and begged me to stay as he loves me and I should stay with the family if not for him just for the children. I have been feeling lost since my feeling for the other person started to get deeper as I really love being with him, I like all about him. He is a wonderful ambitious young man and also claims to love me and wants to share his life with me. However as he is only 28 I am very scared that one day he will leave me for another younger woman, but despie of that I am willing to take that risk if not for my children. They were always very happy children with very stable family life and emotional security and suddenly this situation comes up and they are so unprepared to live with it. I dont know if I should give up my dreams and my happiness for the shake of my children's lives. They are not babies anymore but I am very scared of the impact this situation can have in their future lives.

My husband is nearly 20 years older than me and I think that with the time the age barier became a huge problem between us. He is also the type of man who claims to love, but never shows it, never tells it nor makes you feel loved...

Should I stay with my husband for my children?

[Trinity2]

I don't have any decent advice, although the answers will come. I would not leave for your other love, but for yourself. Leave as if you were not going to be with anyone. Hey, take care and lots of love to you:)

[2sure]

Would the children be expected to leave their home and live with the new younger man?