NSR125 Posted November 10, 2010 Share Posted November 10, 2010 hey...just looking for some advice...me and my ex-girlfriend broke up about 6 weeks ago over nothing she told me she was under too much pressure with college and i went with it because i kinda wanted a clean break she wanted to be friends...it hurt a lot more than i thought...she contacted me the next day and i agreed to meet her as "friends"....bad idea....i got stressed because it felt so strange..i told her not to contact me again and wait for me to contact her.....she texted a lot but i ignored it she went to my friends...i also ignored that...two weeks later i contacted her....we agreed to meet it was strange...she was teary and distant with me and it was like she wanted to tell me something....two weeks after she's texting a lot asking to meet...going to my friends..again...i don't know what to do...anyone have any idea what this girl might want?? because i can't tell with her anymore cheers:) Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted November 10, 2010 Share Posted November 10, 2010 My question to you would be - What do YOU want? Link to post Share on other sites
Author NSR125 Posted November 10, 2010 Author Share Posted November 10, 2010 I honest to god don't know what i wan't...but i think the loneliness i felt...even when i was in that relationship is a place i don't wan't to go again Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted November 11, 2010 Share Posted November 11, 2010 Then the solution to this issue is in your hands, and yours to control. Check the 'caliguy' link in my signature - and work with it, 100%. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NSR125 Posted November 11, 2010 Author Share Posted November 11, 2010 Okay i didn't really take advice....she asked to meet via text so many times i gave in and i felt weaker than weak.....so after weeks of pursueing me to meet....she cancelled last minute...i feel like a pure idiot at the moment:mad:...i suppose if you open that door..don't be surprised if it gets shut on you Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted November 11, 2010 Share Posted November 11, 2010 repeat of post #4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author NSR125 Posted November 12, 2010 Author Share Posted November 12, 2010 im going to try....everytime there's contact it kills me because i don't know what to think....she's a lovely person but i'm not in a position to deal with the crap anymore...it's too much...cheers for the advice:) Link to post Share on other sites
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