lattimershotgun Posted March 8, 2004 Share Posted March 8, 2004 k here is the deal, i am starting to date again. it has been a couple months since me and my ex broke up. I met this girl and she is 19 i am 22 so not too much of a difference their. we get along she seems to have a good sense of humor and such. But my problem is, i find my self getting anxious, things are going quick it seems and it is only 3 weeks of knowing each other. LIke we have been on one date, but she calls me alot and i call her, which is cool but i am just affraid to over do it cause i am affraid to show too much interest. like when their are times when she and i are on teh phoen and there is nothign to be said. Should i jsut make up an excuse and go? cause i usually end up talking about werid bull**** to fill in blank space on phone convos. then i feel like a dumb ass cause i said soemthign werid or i said something that i was thinking that i shodulnt have said. I have alwasy had a habbit of saying things on my mind alot. Like i almost asked her how many guys seh was talking to right now durign this time period. Luckily i was able to change it up mid senctecne to cover my tracks. she even told me she thougth i was gogin to ask her how many guys seh is seeing right now, which i know isnt my busneiss. I jsut played it off and chuckled adn said"ya right i woudltn ask that, thats not my business dork". but deep down haah i was curoius. Sometimes she doesnt talk back that much on the phone so sometimes it isnt interactive and i feel awkward silence. Just after my last relatoinship i had, i am affraid of going to fast with this one. this one is still in the early stages, and i woudl liek to see if it could get to later stages. jsut liek some advice on how not to **** it up! i usualy get overly invovled so that phone call is the only part of the day i look forward too. Or i overly talk my ass off. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted March 8, 2004 Share Posted March 8, 2004 In the mature stages of a meaningful relationship, silence can be rewarding, in it's own special way. In the early stages of a casual relationship, silence is chloroform, and not the kind that gets you laid. Find a way to get off the phone if you have nothing to say. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lattimershotgun Posted March 8, 2004 Author Share Posted March 8, 2004 thanks anyone else with any ideas? Link to post Share on other sites
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