MaryLU Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 (edited) Ok guys how would you react upon finding out your girlfriend has been sneaking up on you many times? I tend to do this often when I'm curious and due to my jealous nature. Yesterday I logged into his account again just for the fun of it. I hacked it up last year by paying a computer expert (which happens to be my cousin's friend). After working I took my truck and parked it blocks close to his house. Then I stayed there for a while. He doesn't know any of this though and he never cheated nor done weird things. It's just me getting curious about his whereabouts and what he's doing in his spare time. Edited November 14, 2010 by MaryLU
PegNosePete Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 If I found out you'd been doing that to me, I would be very upset that you don't trust me. IMO spying is only acceptable with extremely good reasons, it is to find proof of what you already know, not to just check up. Especially paying someone to find passwords, that is extreme paranoia and invasion of privacy. I think you need to talk to your BF and a professional about your lack of trust issues.
babylollipops8 Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Well I'm not a guy but if I found out my boyfriend was doing this to me, I would leave him immediately and report this to the police. This is invasion of privacy and what you're doing is stalking him. You seriously need help.
Sazerac Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 MaryLu, that would seriously creep me out. Your behavior sounds stalkerish, to say the least. Please get some help to find out why you have these overwhelming feelings of jealousy and the need to spy and monitor someone who hasn't given any indications of breaking your trust.
PandorasBox Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 I guess you're getting something from it huh? Like a high maybe? Hopefully they will catch you or someone will tell your S/O and it will all end for you.
Maggotface Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 Wow, what you're doing is really creepy. This is not apropriate at all you need to stop imediatly and maybe seek help.
Kendrick Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 So are you getting the answers you want from doing this? Or wait you stated you did it for fun, never mind.
Shadowpanda Posted November 16, 2010 Posted November 16, 2010 I know that my girlfriend has my facebook and e-mail acces-codes and it doesn't bother me at all if she's spying on me, but what you are describing here doesn't sound healthy at all... I think you need to figure out why you are that obsessed and try to deal with it... It honestly sounds extremely time-consuming.
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