PinkRibbon Posted November 20, 2010 Share Posted November 20, 2010 3 years ago in October my ex-husband dumped me horribly by phone and emailed me for divorce info. We did not see each other and only spoke minimally when I was in a begging mood. I posted on LoveShack at the time and the information and people were great to help one get over the hurt......and boy did it hurt! We did not have contact or see one another for almost three years. Well something happened in the family and someone contact him for information...so with the door open I emailed and thanked him and we have emailed 2 or 3 times. I emailed him last week and chatted about the upcoming holidays and hoping he had a good one. (He is a serial depressed person during the holiday.) Well he emailed back saying he had been thinking about me that day because he was in a presentation with an ex office member. So he said he bought me something right after we split and has been holding it ever since and if I wanted it he brought it to work that day (next day) and would be happy to have it sent. We instead met for lunch the following Monday. When I arrived on at the restaurant when he was walking up to me with the big box he had this goofy look on his face and a smile and I swear if eyes could twinkle that is what they would look like. Well to make a long story short we chatted about family and friends and the gift. His eyes watered alot to the point he had to get a tissue to blot them, he made the comment that I should have gained 50 pounds and not look like this. He made comments about why did we not wait 5 years and did a lot of staring alternated with head hanging. He said "I date" but nothing serious and the current girl "can't cook for **** and you were the best cook I know." I said well can I out an order in for another gift and he said while he laughed "no sex no doll" so I said get sex from your girlfriend and give me the doll. he just said it is not the same and it hasn't been. We left after almost 2 hours and I got a one armed hug while the other was shoeved in his pocket and he walked away with his head down. Nothing since then. Am I wrong in thinking he realizes his mistake and life is not greener on the other side? And what does nayone think will happen next? Thank guys! Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted November 21, 2010 Share Posted November 21, 2010 Yeah he realizes he made a mistake. Take pride in that you are a great person and don't give in to his wishy washiness unless he makes some definite step to show you he wants you back, is genuinely sorry for leaving you, and will do whatever it takes (come hell or high water) to get you back. Link to post Share on other sites
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