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1.5 years later...


soulseeker

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In my attempt to make this short, I'm sure to leave out pertinent information...

 

 

We broke up for a variety of reasons that added up to too much. Prior to our break up, we moved to a new city together and he talked marriage. The move didnt work out, mostly due to the fact that we couldnt find satisfying work. That was 1.5 years ago. We have been in contact on and off since then, never quite able to let the other go. Im 32 he is 35. We now live in different states on opposites sides of the country. He is in trade school that ends at the end of January.

 

Lately, we've been entertaining the idea of seeing if we want to give it another go. I've never really been able to move on. And I guess he hasnt either or why still talk to me?

 

He has told me on two recent occasions that he still cares about me, but is scared that things will end the same way. We've decided that the first thing to do is talk about why things didnt work and why they might be different now.

 

My question is, do you think that he should be sure of his feelings for me at this point? Or, have all of those stupid romantic comedies ruined my ability to look at this rationally?

 

Thoughts? Advice?

 

Thanks

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Love is not rational. Love is about risks, but the reward can be great.

 

Give it some more time, talk more and if you feel it, then I would say go for it. We only live once.

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