Met a guy...

[LoveLetter]

Okay, so basically I met this guy while volunteering. Let's call him A. We ended up working together for 3-4 hours taking care of kids and whatnot. During this time, I grew very attracted to him and you could say it was "infatuation at first sight". Before we seperated, we exchanged names. Later on, I got the balls to add him on facebook (lol). Right after he accepted my friend request, he said that he was looking for me on facebook too.

 

A couple of days later, I IMed him and we had a brief conversation, and A told me that if I was going to volunteer there again to tell him so that he could come too. He told me this twice in the convo, once in the beginning, and right before he left. The convo overall was short, just 5 minutes. He claimed he had to study for a test or something, I don't think the details are really that important.

 

But what is important is that, ever since I've met him, I think I've become seriously infatuated with this guy. I think about him a LOT for these past couple of days, even though I've only met him once. I've had 3 boyfriends in the past, and I feel as if my feelings for A are equal to my infatuation for my previous boyfriends at the height of the relationship. And I've only met this guy once!

 

I'm seriously concerned. I find myself going on facebook waiting for him to come online, which he hasn't, in these past two days. I know the next time he comes online, I want to tell him to come to volunteer with me again. I feel like I'm going crazy, I want to talk to him so badly but he's never online and stuff. :\

 

What should I do exactly? Should I foster this big crush or should I try to dim it down, or should I try to not like A at all? I feel like all I do nowadays is think about him. Even though I'm fairly sure he's somewhat interested in me, I'm not sure if he wants to foster a relationship (that I certainly want ._.) and I feel that if he rejects me or stops talking to me, it'll be just as if I've gotten dumped from a committed relationship.

[yume]

If you like him, which it sounds like you do, just go for it! What's the worst that could happen? I think it's better to ask and find an answer than never ask and always wonder.

 

And instead of making it a volunteering thing, maybe say something like "Would you prefer to go have coffee with me sometime instead?"

[Brandi 2]

If you like him, which it sounds like you do, just go for it! What's the worst that could happen? I think it's better to ask and find an answer than never ask and always wonder.

 

And instead of making it a volunteering thing, maybe say something like "Would you prefer to go have coffee with me sometime instead?"

 

I agree, it sounds like he likes you too!