diormidnightpoison Posted November 22, 2010 Share Posted November 22, 2010 Well all, I did it. I left a message on his phone last Thursday. He didn't pick up, didn't email, didn't call back. I guess it really is over. He's done with me. How do I cope with that? I was doing well when it was me rejecting him. Every time he rejects me by not responding, I go through a whole different round of depression. What is wrong with me? I sit here with a messed up face because of a glycolic peel. It went deeper than normal because I use such strong creams on my face. I get my hair done every six weeks. Keep myself up with how I dress and my weight. He seemed so into me. All I keep thinking is he would rather be with his biker chick? When for 3 years he noticed every new outfit, every different shade of eye shadow? I guess it really is over. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2010 Share Posted November 23, 2010 What was your message to him on his machine? You broke it off with him? If so, then YOU are going to be fine. Ego..Don't let that rule here. So what if now he isn't responding to you. It isn't a game anymore, its' your life! BE glad its' over. No more rollercoaster ride. No more putting up with his crap, his lies, his excuses, being treated poorly, being second fiddle. Just because you aren't calling the shots anymore (it's ok for you to ignore him but when he ignores you, it bothers you?) take that as a blessing! The guy doesn't seem worthy of your tears. Link to post Share on other sites
fooled once Posted November 23, 2010 Share Posted November 23, 2010 What was your message to him on his machine? You broke it off with him? If so, then YOU are going to be fine. Ego..Don't let that rule here. So what if now he isn't responding to you. It isn't a game anymore, its' your life! BE glad its' over. No more rollercoaster ride. No more putting up with his crap, his lies, his excuses, being treated poorly, being second fiddle. Just because you aren't calling the shots anymore (it's ok for you to ignore him but when he ignores you, it bothers you?) take that as a blessing! The guy doesn't seem worthy of your tears. I agree. Honey, it isn't YOU - it is him. Unfortunately, you bought into his 'lies' for years. He is an immature user. He is a cheater. He isn't worthy of YOU. Mourn it. Mourn it and move forward. It wasn't about you not being pretty enough, being thin enough, being chic enough. It was about him and his selfishness and his insecurities. Something in HIM is broken. It isn't a reflection on you. ((hugs)) Link to post Share on other sites
blinded_27 Posted November 23, 2010 Share Posted November 23, 2010 Be THRILLED he isn't contacting you.... it's making it just that much easier for you to move on. It's so much harder when they keep trying to contact you for one last booty call or one last boost to their ego. Use this opportunity to move on with your life and open the doors for someone so much better. Link to post Share on other sites
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