Am I being impatient?

[Lucky555]

So I posted here about a guy I have been in touch with he has displayed his interest in me but he has not said anything about making plans together. I don't like being left hanging he said we would talk more. That's it. So I decided to message him last night but found out he was not feeling great.. So here I am in a waiting phase. It puzzles me that he didn't finish what he had to say. I told him I don't do flings and he only said why would I ask you if I knew that's something you didn't do. I feel Like he is interested but I don't know if he is looking for a relationship. I feel like he is just jumping in and wanting to be exclusive but I'm not getting relationship vibe. I know it's early to think about it but I'm just lost. No relationship that I have had progressed like this. I am not atttched or anything but not knowing is weird for me because I feel he is trying to make up his mind maybe. I can only hypothesize. Facts he contacts me. He has clearly made it show he likes me. But I know actions are how to tell if he really interested so I guess I have to give it time. Now before I do give the guy a chance to be in my life is this a good way to ask: what are you looking for? He did not tell me directly what he was looking for he only kept flirting with me. I don't want to be blindsided.

 

I'm at a point in my life I want someone steady and reliable. If this guy just wants a fling I need go know so I dont put myself to be set up to be heartbroken.