Yeahsussu Posted November 24, 2010 Share Posted November 24, 2010 Hi all. Sorry for the long msg, I hope you are able to read it through and give me some advice. I´m from Northern Europe, and my boyfriend is from Australia. I was studying in Australia in 2008 and met him when I had 3 weeks left (so typical..). We clicked immediately and when I left the country we stayed in touch and our love just grew more and more. After a year apart (in 2009) he came to my country for 2 weeks as he was travelling through Europe. I was heartbroken when he left cause I didn´t know when I was gonna see him next. We texted almost every day, and Skyped on the weekends if we had time. I have never felt so strongly about anyone! I had one year left of my studies, and in Feb 2010 I came to Australia on a working holiday visa to be with him for a year. We have had the most wonderful time with each other, I love him with my life, and he love me too. I feel he is the one! Now to the issue (sorry for the long intro..). I´m leaving the country in less than 2 months. We recently talked a little bit about what´s gonna happen between us when I leave. I have always thought he would come to my country and do the same thing there, take a visa and stay for a few months and we would decide our future after that. But now he tells me he doesn´t know what he wants! He says he don´t wanna promise me anything cause he don´t wanna hurt me and he has a few things he wants to do first here in Australia. This makes me increadibly sad. It is so frustrating aswell since we both love each other! I don´t want him to give up on us now. I´ve asked him what he is afraid of, and he says he just don´t know. He just don´t know what he wants with life I guess. I don´t wanna loose him, he is my life. Im 25 and he is 24, and I am serious about this relationship. He has told me before that he don´t want anyone else, what can I do to make him wanna come to my country for a couple of months? Does he only need time? I just don´t wanna leave the country without knowing when we´ll see each other again And I don´t wanna scare him away by talking about this all the time, just.. what should/can I do? Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted November 25, 2010 Share Posted November 25, 2010 You can't really do anything but wait. In the meantime maybe you two should start working on making plans to see each other again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Yeahsussu Posted November 25, 2010 Author Share Posted November 25, 2010 Thanks for your reply. The thing is, when we try talk about it he just says he doesn´t know what he wants. When I ask him about when he´s gonna come to my country he just says that he doesnt´know, that´s really frustrating and makes me sad. I don´t wanna loose him cause I love him so increadibly much and I don´t want him to give up on us and take the easy way out (breaking up). We both love each other. Just don´t know what to do, I almost feel sick thinking about a life without him :/ Link to post Share on other sites
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