i drove past my ex's house

[Username37]

saw that he was with his new girl that he had told me hes not serious with. I guess that was a lie though.

 

They say a lot of things that are a bunch of bull****.

[Fufu]

Probably because the good times that we had with them are what we hold on to... I know I think of his cute face, the nice things he did for me, and things we did together. But that's gone now. Sometimes I think that they are just as much of victims because they are obviously confused to going back and fourth. I mean, who would intentionally want to hurt us? Fufu, I just don't know how to focus on anything else but him right now.

 

The sad thing is, the dumpers no longer think of the good times. I once asked my ex bf "You forgotten all the happy times we shared? They don't mean anything to you?" His reply was, " I do cherish our happy times together however I strongly believe my decision is right, we are not compatible. I cherished our happy times, thanks for that."

 

Whether they are confused or lost, it really doesn't matter anymore because they choose to GIVE UP & QUIT. In every relationships, there are times when one becomes confused and lost, I believe everyone of us here has that kind of weird feelings but we never choose to give up. They did.

 

It's normal unable to get back to normal because we are all so used to being with them daily, the texts, the phone calls, the meet ups, the datings, all the lovey dovey moments.

 

However, we can be like them, think like them and feel like them. If dumpers can choose to forgo a relationship so easily. We don't have to stuck ourselves inside this relationship. Be like a dumper, feel like a dumper, think like a dumper and in time to come, you will realise that "He ain't that worth it"

[Am4Real]

she probably drives past ur house cause shes not over u.

i mean it also could be that she was bored, but either way she was still thinking about you.

i drove past my ex's house to see if hes with this new girl, which i knew about anyway, but didnt know how serious they were. i feel like if ur with a girl on the holidays its pretty serious.

 

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[ginastar]

oh sorry. im not allowed to write "ur"? i didnt realize that.

 

anyway, fufu- my ex wouldnt talk to me like that. he would never say things that make it seem like its definetely over. i think he wants to keep that door open just in case. i dont know. but before i went nc he would still say he really liked me and how our relationship was great. he was making it harder on me because that just makes it more confusing!

[Fufu]

Sometimes dumpers can really make things confusing for us...

 

At times my ex-bf would say stuff like, I'm still thinking of us everytime and how I can make this relationship works better.

 

But I rather face the fact that he chose to give up.

 

However, I do believe if they believe the relationship can work, thy will take the initative to make the chase again.

[ginastar]

oh yea and when i would ask about him seeing this new girl he would say its not serious and how he cant stop thinking about me.

I felt like saying so why the hell are u forcing yourself to hang out with her. but it was prob just to make me feel better? i dont really know. but i said to myself actions speak louder than words, hes hanging out w her so he obv wants to be hanging out with her over me.