mstckh Posted March 10, 2004 Share Posted March 10, 2004 I'm so much in love with the guy that I know is my soul mate. Everything I do with him just seems to comet together He was my Husbands best friend. My husband brought us together closer and closer before he passed away. He tells me that I really truly loves me but how do I really know or is feeling guilty and keeping a promise he made to my husband? Please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 Originally posted by mstckh He tells me that I really truly loves me but how do I really know or is feeling guilty and keeping a promise he made to my husband? Do you love him? Do you trust him? Love said to Soul, "without trust there can be no love"--If you love him, you'll have to trust that he'd be honest enough to tell you the truth. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mstckh Posted March 11, 2004 Author Share Posted March 11, 2004 Yes i really love him and I trust him. He has stood by me through the pain and the copping I had to deal with the lost of my husband. I don't know any man ot woman that would do that . He has been wonderful. Link to post Share on other sites
MeToo Posted March 13, 2004 Share Posted March 13, 2004 You are a very fortunate woman to have “someone” who has been there (as a friend of your husband) during this traumatic time. They seem to lessen the hurt and pain to an otherwise tragic time in our lives. The great thing about it is “he cares”. Guys of this caliber are few and far apart. This guy is “good medicine” for you and you should pursue him. Yours is like a movie I have on VHS. The title is “Chances Are” starring Cybill Shepherd, Robert Downey Jr., and Ryan O’Neal. If you have it, see it again. If you don’t, then rent it or order it from one of the video store or from Columbia House. Pay special attention to how O’neal (the husband’s friend) almost let her get away. I thought it was a great movie (before R. Downey took a dive). It is a must see for someone like you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mstckh Posted March 15, 2004 Author Share Posted March 15, 2004 METOO Thank you so very much. I am very lucky to find him. I feel he is perfect for me. He does so much for me. HE has open up more with me telling me when he fell in love with me and it was before my husband made him promise to be there for me. He has become by best friend and everything with it. I hope this relationship will turn out to be more than it is. But I'm waiting for him. I've asked him to marry me but he is not ready at this time. (Or so he says I think he is a little scared) I caught him last night calling me his wife. So I hope its in the future. Link to post Share on other sites
MeToo Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 Don’t mention it. One of my colleagues (a women) had to get a handkerchief when she read your initial post and responded, “Why can’t it be like that for all women”. As I have been saying for years……….. Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus MeToo Link to post Share on other sites
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