Jim24 Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 When you ask a girl out, does maybe always mean no? cause i get so worried every time i hear one and i dunno what to believe. Do they just want to think about it or is that supposed to be a nice way to say no? Link to post Share on other sites
guest Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 "Do they just want to think about it or is that supposed to be a nice way to say no?" It's not an outright no, but for some it means "I guess so, if nothing better comes along." Link to post Share on other sites
WWDDFD Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 be happy that you're getting a "maybe" rather than a "yes" and <doesn't show up> every ****ing week... blah. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 Maybe = No Link to post Share on other sites
Jim24 Posted March 12, 2004 Share Posted March 12, 2004 What is exactly is the problem with just saying no? Its better than a reponse that gets one's hopes up.... Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted March 12, 2004 Share Posted March 12, 2004 Originally posted by Jim24 Its better than a reponse that gets one's hopes up.... Why would maybe get your hopes up? Why would you want to be something she could "think over"? Anyway, it's easy to string one along, but hard to reject someone. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted March 12, 2004 Share Posted March 12, 2004 Originally posted by Jim24 What is exactly is the problem with just saying no? Its better than a reponse that gets one's hopes up.... I dont think they intend to do that to someone, but you know...sometimes it's hard to simply say "no" cause they dont want to hurt the other's feelings. maybe or any other excuse is always the best bet that someone is not interested and saying "no" such as you call this girl out for a date, and she says she's busy for the days u offered her, and she doesnt give you a counter-offer, usually it means they're not interested or "no". if they DO give you a counter offer to get together another day, then it usually means they do want to get together and are truthfully busy those days. Link to post Share on other sites
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