AZNNTYCE Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 girls have come and gone within the last 7 months of me and my gf breaking up, and during that time i went out and saw a few girls. none of them came close to what my ex gf had. some had looks but lacked personality, and visa versa. everyday i get told by my family how good this girl was to me and that i let the best thing in my life walk away. heres the story and please think deeply and give me advice on what i should do. my gf and i broke up 7/8 months ago, we saw other people during that time but never ended up persuing relationship. last night i went to her house and we finally started talking about how we feel about each other, for me it was the best thing in the worldto hear. ive been waiting for this moment to come for almost half a year now. my best friend is going out with one of my ex's friends and they all went out today to eat dinner. during that dinner, my ex started talking about this new girl in college and how all the guys are after her. she annouced her name and one of my friends stood up and said "thats the girl henri was seeing" that lil act that my so called friend pulled, did not go well to my ex's ears. and she immediatly took him outside and questioned him. while she was doing so, my best friend call me up and told be about the story. behind everyones back. me and my ex knew we were seeing other people but we didnt really let it get to us, because sometimes she would make it up and i would just to get each other jealous. but this came out and this was evidence that i did see another girl. none of these girls i wanted to go out with, there like one nighters if you would like to call it that. is it too hard now to try and get back togther? i really do love this girl and i have for the past 2 years that we went out. we finally started talking again but this stupid incident happened. what should i do? should i just walk away? and leave it all. cause i know that if i try and talk to her again were going to argue about it because i didnt tell her about it. these other girls dont mean anything to me, but this girl means the world. please some help. Link to post Share on other sites
Fofinha Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 these other girls dont mean anything to me, but this girl means the world. Tell her exactly what you posted above. You were apart, so despite her feelings about it now, you had every right to be with another girl. She cannot hold this against you. That would simply be unfair. If she cannot understand or does not want to see past that then, walk away. You would of done everything in your power to get her back. But please, don't feel guilty about what you did while you were apart. She should understand that. Link to post Share on other sites
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