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girls have come and gone within the last 7 months of me and my gf breaking up, and during that time i went out and saw a few girls. none of them came close to what my ex gf had. some had looks but lacked personality, and visa versa. everyday i get told by my family how good this girl was to me and that i let the best thing in my life walk away.

heres the story and please think deeply and give me advice on what i should do.

 

my gf and i broke up 7/8 months ago, we saw other people during that time but never ended up persuing relationship. last night i went to her house and we finally started talking about how we feel about each other, for me it was the best thing in the world to hear. ive been waiting for this moment to come for almost half a year now.

my best friend is going out with one of my ex's friends and they all went out today to eat dinner. during that dinner, my ex started talking about this new girl in college and how all the guys are after her. she annouced her name and one of my friends stood up and said "thats the girl henri was seeing"

that lil act that my so called friend pulled, did not go well to my ex's ears. and she immediatly took him outside and questioned him. while she was doing so, my best friend call me up and told be about the story. behind everyones back.

me and my ex knew we were seeing other people but we didnt really let it get to us, because sometimes she would make it up and i would just to get each other jealous. but this came out and this was evidence that i did see another girl.

 

none of these girls i wanted to go out with, there like one nighters if you would like to call it that. is it too hard now to try and get back togther? i really do love this girl and i have for the past 2 years that we went out. we finally started talking again but this stupid incident happened. what should i do? should i just walk away? and leave it all. cause i know that if i try and talk to her again were going to argue about it because i didnt tell her about it. these other girls dont mean anything to me, but this girl means the world. please some help.

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I don't understand what the problem is. You and your g/f broke up. You started seeing other girls. End of story.

 

What does your friend have to do with any of this?? The fact that he said something about your relationship with the other girl, is irrelevant. How the hell was he supposed to know about your conversation with your ex. If you think her knowing of this other relationship will work against the two of you getting together, well, that's only your fault.

 

Communication is the key. If you want your ex to know that she is the one, then you must let her know this. If you're willing to let this other girl go fro her, let her know this. But if you ask me, I'd just stick to the hottie you have now :)

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