aussielover Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 hello ladies!! well, if any of you are like me and are just at the point when your husband stops getting a boner when he sees you naked, listen up!! i had my feelings so hurt that my husband didn't seem as sexually interested in me as he used to, the problem is, he wanted sex so much more than me and i wuold turn him down sometimes, well, he got to the point where he would just stop asking, and then i would feel unattractive, plus, i don't like to initiate, i want to feel desired, well, last week, i threw all that out of the window, i went in and mixed up the routine and woke him up with the wildest craziest sex you can imagine, and i wasn't even in the mood, i just really wanted to do something for him that night he was blown away and quite suprised,,,the next morning i woke him up with some oral things (this is so embarrassing to write, but it works! just wantt to help) and that afternoon i went and got him in the bathroom at his work.. n now for the past three weeks he hasn't been able to keep his hands off me, i'm totally serious, it works, please don't be offended at my bluntness! i am married! Link to post Share on other sites
End of my rope Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 Ahhh...but what do you suggest if it's the other way around and it's the woman who is more intersted in frequent (at least once a day) sex than the man? Link to post Share on other sites
corythosaurus Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 Originally posted by aussielover hello ladies!! well, if any of you are like me and are just at the point when your husband stops getting a boner when he sees you naked, listen up!! i had my feelings so hurt that my husband didn't seem as sexually interested in me as he used to, the problem is, he wanted sex so much more than me and i wuold turn him down sometimes, well, he got to the point where he would just stop asking, and then i would feel unattractive, plus, i don't like to initiate, i want to feel desired, well, last week, i threw all that out of the window, i went in and mixed up the routine and woke him up with the wildest craziest sex you can imagine, and i wasn't even in the mood, i just really wanted to do something for him that night he was blown away and quite suprised,,,the next morning i woke him up with some oral things (this is so embarrassing to write, but it works! just wantt to help) and that afternoon i went and got him in the bathroom at his work.. n now for the past three weeks he hasn't been able to keep his hands off me, i'm totally serious, it works, please don't be offended at my bluntness! i am married! Bless you. On behalf of your husband and all men in general, bless you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author aussielover Posted March 11, 2004 Author Share Posted March 11, 2004 well, are you a guy or a girl?? tell me more about the situation. I LOVE SHAKESPEARE! -Nothing is neither good, nor bad, but thinking makes it so! Link to post Share on other sites
End of my rope Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 I am woman...hear me roar! Link to post Share on other sites
Author aussielover Posted March 11, 2004 Author Share Posted March 11, 2004 well then rock the F@#$ on!!! to be one hundred percent honest, i would lay off, but tease, this is just me and i am by no means a sex goddess, but i wouldn't approach him for sex for a while, in fact wait until he approaches you, make sure you know what he really wants in bed and be willing to accomodate him as well, be sexy but don't ask him for sex, he'll wonder why and that'll start driving him crazy, i really think so! but again, i am no expert!, you could even invest in a vibrator and let him accidentally "catch" you using it... i'll ask my husband for some more tips and get back to you Link to post Share on other sites
End of my rope Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 The situation is this. My fiance and I work opposite shifts. I work days he works nights. Every time we get time together I'm ready to go. He isn't. He's always saying..."Tomorrow, or Saturday..." he always puts me off. I try to do things to surprise him. He tells me to stop and "Not right now." He does however look at porn and (my guess) jack off on a daily basis. I don't mind that he does that, but when he does that as opposed to being intimate with me it hurts. I've tried to talk to him, but it does no good. He says I'm paranoid, and making more out of the situation than I should... I didn't mean to diverge off the beaten path though...What you're doing for your husband is wonderful and I'm sure he appreciates it more than you will ever realize! Link to post Share on other sites
Author aussielover Posted March 11, 2004 Author Share Posted March 11, 2004 did the men miss the "advice" that i was looking for?? thanks so much for the props, my husband loved it too, but what about the other?>? Link to post Share on other sites
End of my rope Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 don't ask him for sex, he'll wonder why and that'll start driving him crazy, i really think so! but again, i am no expert!, you could even invest in a vibrator and let him accidentally "catch" you using it... I've tried that...didn't work. I have a vibrator...and he knows I use it... and often...he teases me about how many batteries I use in a month... Link to post Share on other sites
Author aussielover Posted March 11, 2004 Author Share Posted March 11, 2004 okay, well my husband will do that sometimes when he's really tired, maybe there is a way that you can work your schedules so that you have more time, i mean, it sounds like you don't get much time together anyway, and no amount of money is worth losing the best friend element of your marriage, that is the top priority, even if money and schedules get in the way, you still have to put eachother first.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author aussielover Posted March 11, 2004 Author Share Posted March 11, 2004 oops, advice was on the other forum i just posted, sorry!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author aussielover Posted March 11, 2004 Author Share Posted March 11, 2004 well, when he puts you off and says on saturday, then agree on a time and date to do it an do it (this is what my husband says), he also said that if he likes porn, then try renting some and watching it together? hmm, i'll be thinking that's from a man's point of view Link to post Share on other sites
spencer Posted March 13, 2004 Share Posted March 13, 2004 Originally posted by End of my rope I've tried that...didn't work. I have a vibrator...and he knows I use it... and often...he teases me about how many batteries I use in a month... get one with the ac adapter, that recharges. i have been able to put my battery expense into a retirement account. Link to post Share on other sites
End of my rope Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 Originally posted by spencer get one with the ac adapter, that recharges. i have been able to put my battery expense into a retirement account. I'll do that! What a great way to save for retirement! Link to post Share on other sites
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