butterflysil Posted December 3, 2010 Share Posted December 3, 2010 i'll try and keep this short but might get long. i met an amazing man really have nothing bad to say about him till this day. cupid hit me really har which takes a long time for me. i met him a little over 2 months ago. i am a bartender he played in the pool league. he goes there with his dad and uncles. there was something from the first minute that genuilely got me intrigued to him. it was mostly his charm. well i am not one to give my number but after me flirting with him i don't think he took too much of it since i am a bartender, i flat out gave him my number. the very next day he called we talked for a long time. he called alot. we went out that night nothing happened. than he asked me out before the night ended for the next day. we kissed heavy the next day and we both just beyond clicked. something i rarely do. than the next day we hung out again. this time we did go all the way. so i felt i ruined it too soon. i tried to do the just leave thing in the morning he stopped me. as a matter of fact wanted me to stay. well we went out that night again. always him initating. the days since he calls every day we talk for hours. i never had that. well he started talking about his daughter and how no girl has ever met her only her mom. which is fine by me. he told me not expect meeting her soon. a few days later he invited me to meet her. and his family. they all made it sound like they heard so much about me. i felt it was too soon but really liked him. a week later everything great he asked to be exclusive. i said yes. fastforward a week later he calls on thankgiving i was working so i texted him i was at work. he said ok sorry. he didn't call i got out late went home ate alone than knocked out before midnight. he text pass midnight saying i didn't call. he called at 4 and 5. i was asleep so i didn't answer the next day i was supoose to take him to a party no answer. than i text the next day no anwer. he called me at night and basically said he was extremely hurt i didn't talk to him on thanksgiving he was inviting me over. i told him ok i didn't know that and if he really wanted me there he should have told me the day before. he said i really really like you i had high hopes with you now i feel i'm closing off. he was like you met my daughter i wanted you here on thanksgiving. than he was like i'll call you back he did. than he was like ok i'll call you back he did again. than he was like i'm going to sleep. goodnight. that was satuday. sunday i didn't here from him so i called him no anwser left a mesage no response. it's thursday no call or answer am i dumped?or is he really that hurt? btw i'm 28 he's 32 Link to post Share on other sites
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