anon Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 There is a restaurant owner who I think is interested in me 1) He asked my father about me while I was away from college, but that was a few years ago. 2) He stares at at face sometimes 3) Is enthusiastic when I enter his restaurant 4) Starting greeting me by my name, without me telling him what it was (he found out from my phone orders) 5) Tries to make conversation However, I'm confused and can't tell if he really likes me or if he just wants my patronage as a customer, because 1) He has never asked me out from the two years I've been coming in his restaurant (mind you, I stop going in for periods at a time and when I return he mentions that he hasn't seen me for a while), and I never attend more than 1x per week. 2) Our conversations are never extended I can't tell if it's a lack of real interest or because he has little time to really talk to me, since he it's just two people at the counter, and he is the cook (as well as the owner). He interacts with customers in a friendly way. The only time we get to talk is when he is giving me my order. Should I vary the times that I come in, for example coming close to closing time and see if he chats with me more? Or should I just assume that he's not interested or not interested enough? Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah Posted March 11, 2004 Share Posted March 11, 2004 I would have though he was just being friendly as you are a customer and a regular one. Though if you would like something to happen between you both then go in late and leave late and just talk to him more. Hope it helped you in some way Good luck !!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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