wwjj2255 Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 I"m a little jealous of my girlfriend's ex, who she was with for several years. I get really annoyed when I accidentally come across pictures of the two of them together. I'm not worried about our relationship. We have a great relationship. But it really bothers me when I see these pictures. Should I ask her to get rid of them or should I let her do it on her own? Link to post Share on other sites
fltc Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 Have you told her the pictures bother you? It has to be her decision to get rid of them or not but you might mention your feelings to her. Link to post Share on other sites
Stung Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 Well, where are the pictures? If they're framed and up in her house, or on her refridgerator or all over her facebook, I think it's understandable that this annoys you and she should have more tact and stow them away somewhere. If they're put away in albums or boxes or just in files on her computer, I think you need to try to let it go. Just don't look through her memorabilia, simple enough--I'm not sure how you 'accidentally' come across her pictures, if they're put away. Maybe offer to move the boxes/albums to the attic for her, to make room for new memorabilia. Also consider starting to take your own photographs with her, and perhaps have a few of the best ones framed and set out. Link to post Share on other sites
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