What is this relationship? Am I being f*cked over?

[Lolakazaloo]

I have been friends with this guy for a year. He broke up with his gf about 7 months ago, and we have since hooked up. Well, we were always flirting and eventually we started sleeping together about 2 months ago.

 

I was very careful not to go in too hard too soon with the 'relationship' talk (even though I am infatuated with this guy), but I can't help thinking that he is stringing me along. Even though I know he is not seeing any other girls, he only calls maybe once a week, and we usually only meet up once every 2 or 3 weeks. He found out I went on a date with someone else and although was jealous, said it would be "unfair" of him to ask me not to see other people. This dissapointed me; I thought it was his chance to take things to the next level by wanting to be exclusive.

 

I just don't know if I can do anything to speed up things on the road to boyfriend/girlfriend status. I could date around but I don't want anyone else but him. The fact that I know he likes and cares for me, but is keeping things on a casual basis is frustrating. Worse is that I don't know what his future intentions are: does he merely see me as a f*ck buddy, or does he see r'ship potential somewhere down the track? And then, why the wait? ARGH! Any insight?

[Fofinha]

he only calls maybe once a week

 

said it would be "unfair" of him to ask me not to see other people

 

Your answer is right there. He either sees you as the "rebound" girl or probably does not feel as stongly about you as you do about him.

It probably hurts to hear this but you are better off moving on if all you really want is a relationship from this guy. It will probably hurt you less now, down the line.