Distant78 Posted December 20, 2010 Share Posted December 20, 2010 Look, the OP stated that her husband is a great guy and her best friend. He doesn't mistreat her and they can talk to each other about anything. So, they're missing passion. With all the positives to this relationship, you just don't throw it away! You work on it and re-discover or decover it for the first time. So, with that said. I feel that there are outside influences at work here. Sorry, but...just my opinion. Yup, agreed. When most divorces occur over 50% of the time, the ex-husband never finds out his ex-wife cheated, and 25% of the time they never know the baby their wife is carrying is not theirs. If there were no problems at all, and OP's husband was an all-around good guy, then there's no need to divorce all of a sudden. There's always someone else in these situations or some other outside influence. But it might be best to divorce anyway so the husband can find someone who's really into him, and not be bored thinking about some dude they know at work. Link to post Share on other sites
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