Author iheartboobs Posted December 7, 2010 Author Share Posted December 7, 2010 I'll take that chance. She's done nothing but walk all over me since she left while still assuming I'd be at her beck-and-call and continuing to blame me for everything that was wrong in her life. So yeah, when she tells me I'm the reason she can't finish her nursing degree even though I'm working overtime so she doesn't have to and cleaning and cooking and taking care of our daughter so she has time to do her homework and then helping her finish her homework... it does feel good to see her have to drop out after she left me. When she tells me that I'm the reason she doesn't have any friends and then she loses the one friend she did have two months after leaving, that also feels good. When she tells me she doesn't need or want me to take care of her because she's found someone better and then her car gets repossessed and I get a call begging me to help her out... I'm sorry, but that feels great and I'm going to enjoy it. Besides, I couldn't count on her to do anything for me before, so I don't think I'm risking losing too much... but, in the interest of not pissing off the universe, I will try to enjoy her constant failure a little less. Link to post Share on other sites
Ballerfamily Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 Thank you kindly.... Well actually, strictly speaking (and specifically according to Buddhism) that's not quite accurate.... Karma is basically volitional action, be it mental, verbal or physical. And the OP, for all his gloating, may find that his lack of compassion (albeit somewhat understandable) may eventually turn on him and find him in need without someone to help him. Maybe. Who knows? All I know, is that by keeping mental verbal and physical actions(Thoughts, words and deeds) 'clean' we have a grester chance of being happy with the results. That's all. Thanks to both you and Gunny. You guys rock..... TM I am sorry for the bad comment about German Buddhist. Bad. i wsh I could delete. BF Link to post Share on other sites
Surfer203 Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 iheartboobs: Man.. I think you have every right to feel the way you do and enjoy some of her misfortunes. I know my wife will experience some of these as well and I kind of wish them upon her, just based on what she has put me through. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 Boy, what a piece of work she is. Unbelievable! Karma at it's best and she laid out the ground work, walked that pathway, now she has to deal with what's come her way. A life lesson that maybe one day she'll learn from, but I ain't holding my breath from what you've said about her. Good on you for standing up for yourself. I'm proud of you!! Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 OP, she got what she had coming, and you had every right to revel in her misery. Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted December 7, 2010 Share Posted December 7, 2010 TM I am sorry for the bad comment about German Buddhist. Bad. i wsh I could delete. BF Please don't worry, it's fine. Through progress, we learn. ((())) Link to post Share on other sites
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