sonofhud Posted March 12, 2004 Share Posted March 12, 2004 I have a younger sister and one of her best friends has been really coming onto me lately and asking me to take her out on a date and what not. There was always the possibility she was just jokin.....but she said and I quote "seriously, lets go out"....or something like that. Anyways....dunno if thats such a good idea but she is totally awesome so its hard not to want to. Link to post Share on other sites
P1xie Posted March 12, 2004 Share Posted March 12, 2004 What does your sister think of it? My brother has gone out with my friends sometimes our friendships withheld sometimes they didn't. It was sometimes a strain on our friendship but my concern was both my brother and friend being happy. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyangel Posted March 13, 2004 Share Posted March 13, 2004 Personally, I think it's dangerous territory to get into. There are a lot of possible scenarios that could cause problems. I'll try to think of a few. 1) It doesn't work out, there are problems, and your sister is expected to take sides. That's a bad position for her to be in. 2) It doesn't work out, there are problems, and your sister loses her good friend. She'll resent you. 3) Gossip. Personal things could get back to your sister that might embarrass you. Think with your head that has a brain. Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted March 13, 2004 Share Posted March 13, 2004 sonofhud, are you not engaged anymore? what happened? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sonofhud Posted March 13, 2004 Author Share Posted March 13, 2004 What does your sister think of it? She hasn't said too much....so far. I might talk to her about it soon though just to see what she says. There was a time a few years ago when she wanted to date one of my friends and I kinda freaked out about it and made sure it didn't happen.....so I guess its not really fair for me to expect her to go along with it even if I wanted her too. Angel, those are great points and I have actually considered all of those consequences. Its really a lose-lose situation I guess. are you not engaged anymore? what happened? I've never been engaged....I think I had posted something about the possibility of me and my ex marrying at one point long ago, but we were never engaged. I think I'm too young for all of that Link to post Share on other sites
PFPunks Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 Hey People, Im dating a good friend of mines little sister and he is extremely cool about it. Turns out shes the love of my life and I've never met anyone like her. So if you dont really really like her i'd say its not worth it. If your just trying to get laid you dont want to **** up your sisters relationship with her for that...or do you? I'd talk to your sister first. Anyways my whole point in this was to tell you that it can work out, but always keep your sister in front of the girl because she might only last a month but your sister will be with you forever. Peace, Love, and Surf Naked AJ Link to post Share on other sites
End of my rope Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 I went out with my brother's best friend for about 6 months back when I was like 16 or 17. Things didn't work out with us but we made a decision before we ever went on the first date that no matter what we wouldn't involve my brother and if things didn't work out would still remain civil to one another...and we did. He and I are still friends on some level and he still hangs with my brother all the time. I think that as long as the two of you go into it with your eyes open and set a couple of ground rules you'll be fine. Link to post Share on other sites
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