N0192948 Posted December 10, 2010 Share Posted December 10, 2010 So a quick situation: A girl I met and I hit it off well, maybe too well. Like the second date we spend two days together. We saw each other a few times after that and things were great. We really liked each other. And then. . . She wasn't available anymore. We would text and she always got back to me, we just didn't hang out anymore. I called her out and said something about if she doesn't want to see me anymore she should tell me. We spoke a few days later and she was basically not sure what she wanted, I let her know that I understood (she was 4 months out of a LTR) and told her that she should call me when she figured out what she wanted, if she wanted to see me again . . . It's been a month. I've gone out on two other dates with other girls and I'm assuming she has done the same but I still think about her daily. In the back of my mind I think 6 months from now I may call her if i don't hear from her and am still single (i know that is dangerous and trying not to). What do you all think, would it even be worth it? Would that be pathetic? Thanks. Oh we dated for about one month. Link to post Share on other sites
2010_Sorry Posted December 10, 2010 Share Posted December 10, 2010 Sounds like it might have started very quickly and intensified faster than she was expecting within that month. If you cannot stop thinking about her, there is no sense in waiting 6 months to reach out to her. Relationships are all about timing... don't sit and wait.... act. Link to post Share on other sites
Author N0192948 Posted December 14, 2010 Author Share Posted December 14, 2010 Thank you for your input! Link to post Share on other sites
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