polly Posted March 13, 2004 Share Posted March 13, 2004 i have a problem...i met this person after talking on the phone without seeing each other first, for a while and we decided to met up with each other. when we met , he blew me off and quit talking to me. so, i quit talking to him too. well, layer, he started talking to me online and all he wanted was to fool around..i would just tease him and but never actually fooled around with him b/c i would feel uncomfortable fooling around with someone who doesn't find me attractive. anyway, while talking on the phone sometimes, he would say mean things like wanting me to sick my finger up (you know where) and i don't understand why he was so mean, i was nice to hoime the whole time. anyway, eversince then i've been looking in every mirror because i feel like i'm really ugly or something...help me figure this out! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted March 13, 2004 Share Posted March 13, 2004 He is a jerk. That's all you need to know. Why is it that perfectly good humans meet idiots who treat them badly and somehow think the idiots have any sort of opinion worth bothering about? Forget the jerk. He's no friend. He's trying to use you and that's it. Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah Posted March 13, 2004 Share Posted March 13, 2004 Block him, Never talk to him again, and please don't go meeting up with people you dont know or have never seen before on your own. Don't let him make you lose self-esteem. You are better then him, if he can't be nice and polite to you when you have been nice and polite to him. Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 Most of those online chat things are men looking for sex. It's a player's paradise on there. Even the women are bad on there. I've had a couple of offers, even though I tell them I am engaged. Most are married, wanting to cheat. Don't IM this guy, he'll just use you. Once he gets his way he'll go onto the next. Granted there are good people out there. There are two of them that I still talk to and one is married. Her husband knows and doesn't mind. She's been a great inspiration to me. The other one I considered as a lost opportunity. Her looks were average looking but her heart was made of pure gold. We talked & emailed each other for 6 months when she wanted to visit. We had everything in common. She was going to drive 10 hours to see me. I never met anyone from online, and still was getting over a bad relationship. Anyway, we didn't meet and she found & married someone else, and I'm engaged myself now. There are decent people on there, but it's so easy to lie about things I would be leery about using that as a way of meeting people. Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 what do you look like? Weight & height? Link to post Share on other sites
meanon Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 How old are you Polly (be honest) ? Be careful of this guy he sees you are vulnerable and is preying upon you. The most important lesson to learn about people is that you don't spend your time or attention on ANYONE who makes you feel bad about yourself. Don't talk to him at all. If he persists buy a whistle and blow it down the phone whenever he calls then hang up, delete his messages without reading them, if you live with your parents tell them. There are mean people out there - you are learning to recognise and avoid them. Link to post Share on other sites
MeToo Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 The previous replies to your post are valid. CUT THIS THING OFF AT THE KNEES. Perversive people of this sort should be jailed with no parole. If you are still “talking” to him then STOP!! Drop This Zero And Find Yourself A Hero! Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 Drop This Zero And Find Yourself A Hero! Johnny Cochrane? Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted March 16, 2004 Share Posted March 16, 2004 Drop This Zero And Find Yourself A Hero! Johnny Cochrane? LMAO.... no its Jenny Jones..... Link to post Share on other sites
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