I like her, but how can I tell if she likes me?

[BobNoName426]

I basically asked my crush out and her response was "that's sweet of you to ask me. And I would love to go!" Unfortunately, something came up where she couldn't go on the date, but the excuse was very legit and she felt bad and apologized to me. I swear whenever we speak, she is flirting, but I'm not certain as I don't have a ton of experience with girls. Sometimes she won't reply to my texts, but they're not the most important things. I'd rather talk face-to-face. She always smiles and looks at me whenever I see her or when we are having a conversation.

 

The way I look at it, if she didn't like me or was trying to blow me off, then she wouldn't act the way she is... which is to smile, compliment me, ask me questions, etc.

 

What are some signs that she may like me? Smiling, giggling, soft spoken and long responses?

 

Thanks!

[restart]

Well, she apologized, but no offer of an alternate date? That sucks, but it happens. So, the eye contact is reassuring definitely, and she's likewise still sizing you up by the messages and/or contacts you have, because like you said, she was YOUR crush, and now she is trying to catchup (perhaps)! If you're already in text contact, then just ask her out again, what do you got to lose, just go for a chat somewhere or who knows!If she reneges again, well then her real response signals become clearer for you. If you've got nothing to lose, no other options, hey its up to you whether to keep maintaining the contact...and why not?..if it makes you feel good and she's not killing it, it could get better again.

[PillaStoof]

Personally from what you're saying I would think she likes you..try asking her out again in a while and see what she says

[Nela]

Indeed, just ask her out again and find out. If it's a proper smile, she definitely doesn't dislike you. Girls don't tend to smile and talk to guys they don't like.

Also, depending on her age and the type of girl she is, she could be a bit hesitant about going out on a date. If that could possibly be the case, ask her out for a coffee or lunch something.

 

Remember, she could just be waiting for you to ask her again, so please, do try!

 

From a personal experience, I tend to either find guys nice, or not nice. The nice ones, I'll go out with if they ask. Then, as I get to know the guy, I either start to properly like him, or I don't. If I don't, I let them know and usually end things there.