Eddie Edirol Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 It could be a combination of everything really. If he's constantly asking for reassurance, then he has no idea which of his actions turns a woman off. You might have to explain these things to him. You might have to ask him WHY hes asking for reassurance and dig down deep. You'll get the real truth eventually if it truly is insecurity. Him asking for reassurance is insecurity and control wound up in one.
Dexter Morgan Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 It could be a combination of everything really. If he's constantly asking for reassurance, then he has no idea which of his actions turns a woman off. You might have to explain these things to him. You might have to ask him WHY hes asking for reassurance and dig down deep. You'll get the real truth eventually if it truly is insecurity. Him asking for reassurance is insecurity and control wound up in one. read her thread about the 3some she agreed to with a girl that she wanted to be with, and you'll start to get the picture.
imagine Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 How is your boyfriend to other people: Is he helpful, empathetic/ or self absorbed and critical? Please choose your own words!
Author Sarahhhh Posted December 21, 2010 Author Posted December 21, 2010 How is your boyfriend to other people: Is he helpful, empathetic/ or self absorbed and critical? Please choose your own words! He is sweet, caring, charming, wonderful, helpful, loving, generous, funny, charismatic, and he is very physically attractive. But he is also... a liar, a cheater, untrustworthy, selfish, doesn't keep his word, a slut, etc... He's best of both worlds. fml.
Dexter Morgan Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 A. He's jealous because he's afraid that I'm going to find someone better and he's trying to keep me from doing so. he is jealous because he knows you want other people and have acted on it before. thats the plain facts of it. you made out with another girl. but I digress, it was because he sanctioned it and also made out with her. so funny how he is jealous when he wanted to do the same things. again, this isn't the relationship for you unless you like swinging.
TaraMaiden Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 I'd hardly call "a liar, a cheater, untrustworthy, selfish, doesn't keep his word, a slut, etc..." The 'best' of any world......
rhonian Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Sarah, IMO jealousy is the root of something deeper. I think its INSECURITY on his part. Please be careful, it could lead to much worse. I dont recall if you said how long you two have been together but IMO I can assure you based on what you have written that this is not a life-long relationship. He sounds like a fake.....lets everyone on the outside view him as Mr. Wonderful but to the people on the inside (you) he cant help but show his true colors. ???
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