ame Posted December 16, 2010 Share Posted December 16, 2010 hi, my bf n i have just split up a couple of days ago, because he said i dont trust him we havent really sat and spoke about it since he has sent me a few angry txts but otherwise i aint really heard anything from him. well hes agreed that we can meet to talk after me askin quite a few times. this is y i dnt understand if hes makin me jealous he said that he might be going out friday night so we can talk saturday, now is he tryin to make me jealous by him telling me hes goin out or is it a test to c if i do trust him? im hoping that reason hes tryin 2 make me jealous is cuz he still cares??? any advise or ur ideas wood b great cuz i really want him bk and im driving myself crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted December 16, 2010 Share Posted December 16, 2010 Well it could be true that he actually has plans on Friday. He didn't tell you that he is going out on a date or anything. He's just going out - maybe its to see his buddies, maybe he has a family dinner thing going on. OR maybe he's just making it up. I just don't see how him being busy on one night should make you jealous at all? You're reading way too much into it. Did he never go out and do stuff with people other than you when you guys were dating? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ame Posted December 16, 2010 Author Share Posted December 16, 2010 nah he only ever went out about 3 times and he knew that when he went out i was really insecure. i dont understand why he had to say to me that he might be going out? he knew that id be wondering! Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 nah he only ever went out about 3 times and he knew that when he went out i was really insecure. i dont understand why he had to say to me that he might be going out? he knew that id be wondering! Why are you insecure when he goes out? I think that's a bigger issue you need to tackle. I don't mean any offense by that, but i don't think that's healthy sweetie. You need to work on your insecurities. But I guess that's a different topic. In that case, yeah he probably mentioned it to piss you off. Or, maybe he has issues with you being so insecure with him having a life - and he said it to test your reaction. Link to post Share on other sites
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