monkey00 Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 Who do you think is more feared, the guy w/the big mouth, or the strong silent type? A. A loud mouth that gloats about how he's all that and what he's capable of. the bragger. and when the time comes, he'll probably back out on his words. a guy that's all talk & no action. or B. A guy who doesn need a loud mouth to prove anything to anyone. and when the time comes, he will prove it. this guy is action. why am i asking? cause i've known this dude for 4 yrs he is Guy A I am guy B. I cant even consider him a friend cause all we really do is hangout and talk, and many times he will try to put me down with his words. I basically have a better life ahead of me, while he's screwed up every opportunity he was given. and i think because of this, he's bitter towards me. When he puts me down, i dont bother saying anything and laugh with him. Cause i know that's the type of person he is. i dont take it seriously. but i think i should now on cause it's starting to get to me. Everything i say or experiences i had, he will always try to relate to it and say how he had it better. I feel like anything i say or do, he tries to compete with me so he can be on top. he brags about stuff like how much a jacket cost when i didnt even ask him. most of what he says to me or anyone else, it's either highly exaggerated or lies. he will even go as far as talking bout what his friends did to compete with me. i've seen this guy try to hold a converstaion with strangers before. He will always try to relate what the convo is about to his friend (that's if he cant relate it to himself). He's a pretty bad conversationist if u ask me. either he'll talk about himself or his friend. this guy likes compliments and if u say anything that's slightly unfavorable to him, he get pissed easily (bad tempered). hes just so full of himself that he doesnt even realize it. oh and btw, i forgot to mention he acts differently when it's just me and him VS. other ppl ppl around. let's just say he's more cool when it's me & him. he puts up a different front when others are around. dont understand this guy Link to post Share on other sites
Togagirl Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 Personally I'm into type b guys. Type a just tends to become annoying. When your talking you don't always want someone relating to everything you say or worst trying to top it. Type b guys appear to be more confident, which is a major turn on for me. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted March 15, 2004 Share Posted March 15, 2004 If you can just add that the Type B guy really knows how to listen...to open his ears, and understand, and not just wait for the other person to stop talking so he can jump in with his own blather...then he's a winner. Of course! Monkey, I get the feeling that you're trying to mold yourself into the perfect, chick magnet man. That's kind of cute, and I support you in that. Just make sure you don't try to morph SO hard that you lose the good stuff about what makes you monkey00. Link to post Share on other sites
Author monkey00 Posted March 16, 2004 Author Share Posted March 16, 2004 Lol solemate thanks for the support, ur cute too . i dont necessarily think im a chick magnet, even if i was, they'd think i was taken and not even try. sob! just when i meet a girl that's cool, i find out she already has a bf(such as today). all the good quality girls are all taken, arent there any left for me? hm.. well guys, type A may just be the way he is in front of the guys. it's possible type A acts different with girls. altho i've never seen how my friend acts in front of girls, i think he has a different attitude. ive heard from my other friend that he cant say "no" to girls, he'll practically do anything for them, let alone step over him. anyway i find that he can be very fake sometimes, in front of guys that is. Link to post Share on other sites
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