how to write a seductive email to an old guy friend youve known for yrs?

[raindrop2004]

could any one out there tell me how to start a nice seductive email im trying to write to an old friend which happens to be a guy im stumped i have no clue how to write one what does a guy wanna hear i want something not to long but not too short ive known him for 17yrs now i know im being clueless but ive never done this before and were both divorced now and communicating via email and the topic did come up us being intamite when he came into town no strings........any ideas would be greatly aprreciated

[Papillon]

I have a very good suggestion: When you write that e-mail, USE PUNCTUATION!

 

And besides, a sexy phone-call is a lot more seductive than an electronic missive.

[shibby45]

I agree. Use punctuation. It might make you sound a little more mature than the 17 year old girl (which I thought you were at first glance of this post) you sound like you are. Not to mention that it might give someone a chance to comprehend what you've just written. The "....." was a nice touch, a good effort maybe, but it could not stop the madness that was your run-on sentence.

 

Anyway, if the topic of being intimate came up during a conversation, what are you worried about? Just write (preferably say) what's on your mind. I'm sure (being a guy) he won't care what you say, as long as it involves him and sex.

[triple_a_fringe]

Seduction via email/internet is a slippery slope but if you're sure about what you want from this guy then go for it. Try doing a search for erotic stories/poetry/letters on google. That might give you some idea of how seductive you want to be. Talking sex and alluding to the possibility of sexual encounters are two very different things. Especially if you also see this person in real life.

 

 

Just make sure you know what you want. When sex/seduction comes up in an internet relationship and you also see this person in real life that can create a sticky situation. It is possible to place your self in a position where you feel obligated to have sex when your really just flirting which no guy like being teased if they feel they've practically been given the OK based on what you've written in your emails. Plus you could end up seeming like a tease from their perspective.

 

 

This is a site I've enjoyed but some of it might be a little too sexual for a first time seduction letter. Although she also writes about other subject matters http://www.geocities.com/class.html but it will at least give you some where to start. Check out the poem "I Crave Your Mouth" it's written by an Indian poet (from India not Native American) Pablo Neruda. The poem is very seductive without being really blatantly sexual. I suggest something like that to start with and if things get more intense between you two then go for the more erotic style. Good Luck!

[raindrop2004]

Thanks.Im sorry I was in a hurry that day I know I didnt use PUNCTUATION.No Im not a 17yr old .I thought it be kind a fun to write something like that via email,since Ive known him for yrs.But thanks for your opinions.

[triple_a_fringe]

Good deal! And don't worry about punctuation, that's just basic educated indoctrination spilling from prosaic brains. We're talking PASSION. Any one who gets too caught up in being grammatically accurate when writing from the heart/lust (or whatever one might chose to call this source) is going to lose some of the creativity and sincereity. I think it is cool that you tried a different writing style!! Keep it up. Who cares about high school English any way if the context and content of what you write is good and from a sincere flow!

[jenny]

lol - i think it is more of a question of whether or not the intended audience will understand and appreciate the seduction, rather than random nitpickery. people often have short attention spans when it comes to sentences, so punctuation is a way of keeping the tension hot in the writing.

 

consider:

 

wellwhen i see u i wanna to take your clothes and then go over to the tent and get it on then i will be happy and the next day i will make you breakfast then we will go again in the kitchen cuz marmalde is sexy and u will lick it off but then well be sticky which will attract bears and during my 45th climax and bear will appear and eat me thus destroying our beautiful passionate relationship or maybe just a super hot lay mmmmya o baby smack gurgle mumble dick-lay moan.

 

without punctuation, it reads like a porn movie. why not slow down; enjoy the places to pause in writing; smell the nouns? grammar is all about taking the time to consider how to get your readers into bed with you.

 

you can have sincerity coming out of the wazoo but that won't matter if your reader is bored and frustrated by the first 60 words. so, if your intended does indeed talk, think, and write without pause or clause himself, then by all means send as is!

[Samson]

Apparently a good posting is a function of the number of times the legs of turkey-bird are spread.

 

This is the official end of my contribution to the voyeur/trolls roaming LS today.

[triple_a_fringe]

Originally posted by jenny

lol - i think it is more of a question of whether or not the intended audience will understand and appreciate the seduction, rather than random nitpickery. people often have short attention spans when it comes to sentences, so punctuation is a way of keeping the tension hot in the writing.

 

consider:

 

wellwhen i see u i wanna to take your clothes and then go over to the tent and get it on then i will be happy and the next day i will make you breakfast then we will go again in the kitchen cuz marmalde is sexy and u will lick it off but then well be sticky which will attract bears and during my 45th climax and bear will appear and eat me thus destroying our beautiful passionate relationship or maybe just a super hot lay mmmmya o baby smack gurgle mumble dick-lay moan.

 

without punctuation, it reads like a porn movie. why not slow down; enjoy the places to pause in writing; smell the nouns? grammar is all about taking the time to consider how to get your readers into bed with you.

 

you can have sincerity coming out of the wazoo but that won't matter if your reader is bored and frustrated by the first 60 words. so, if your intended does indeed talk, think, and write without pause or clause himself, then by all means send as is!

 

 

Point well taken ... if one is writing a novel or an article for a public publishing. Or possibly a letter of information, or just keeping in touch type letter ... "Hello, how are you? ... etc.

 

Although from what I understood the relationship she was speaking of was already established on one level and she was interested in taking it to another.

 

The example you wrote most definitely would require punctuation to make a good read as many forms of writing surely would. Academia has it's place in the world indeed.

 

I can appreciate your extremeness in making your point by the example you wrote. I'm sure you're aware (considering the whole of your writing ability in your post) the example you chose to write, even with punctuation, would be a bad read. The content is bad.

 

I was referring to something more along the lines of this writing style ....

 

"overwhelm me with ur desire lay me down with ur passionate fire

consume my soul with ur spirits lust lay me down do what you must

sate this thirst in my loins constant state our passion is ecstasy

our desire is fate control me with ur swollen member dance inside

me until I surrender"

 

I think most people, upon reading a proclamation (CONTENT) such as the above, would be capable of enjoying it for themselves without the writer's assigned punctuations to direct them.

 

I don't think many people receiving a writing style such as the above would find it confusing, boring, or frustrating. I could be giving the average person more credit than deserved in terms of creativeity, romance, and flare but I certainly would hope people are mentally and emotionally able to get past their English lessons and read it at a speed and tone that suits them best.

 

Porn would be considered the content rather than anything to do with puctuation. I could imagine to even the most conservative who might read the above poem realizes it alludes to sexual ecstasy without blatanly saying "Hey let's f**K!".

 

The reason for my statements on puctuation in the first place was that I felt she needed some encouragement in her new approach. Especially since, in her second post, she seemed to focus on the criticism that had been give and seemed apologetic. Who knows what might drown someones spark of creativity. Message boards often times seems to breed critics, for whatever reason, rather than offering advice to the questions posted.

 

After all she was asking for advice on a personal level and not about making a career as a writer nor a critic of that particular post. I understood her post perfectly. How much direction do we need?

 

What you wrote was more like a list of things to do with pornographic blatant blurts rather than an erotic soul felt flow of passion. I understand that not everyone is a romantic but every one is capable (or I would hope) of trying to break the mode when applicable.

 

I feel encouraging people in trying something different and creative is important than.