PegNosePete Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 I agree with those who say she might not come right out and say "I want to get back together" straight out of the gate, but she would at least be a little more direct like "I'd really like to see you and talk to you. Can you meet me at such and such place at such and such time?" In general yes I agree with you but given the history of this thread and the months and months of mucking around that she's been doing, I think giving her yet another chance to mess around and procrastinate is not a good idea. A decision needs to be made once and for all at some point, and she's already been given way too many opportunities! Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 25, 2011 Share Posted January 25, 2011 Here's why you don't respond: When you can open such a note and not respond that way, but rather with indifference, then textually/verbally respond as appropriate. I told a lot of strangers 'happy holidays' and 'merry Christmas' as I traveled across the country yesterday. Who they were didn't matter. That's instructive. Good luck and happy holidays I absolutely agree with this! Don't respond at all. Link to post Share on other sites
jnl001 Posted March 6, 2011 Share Posted March 6, 2011 Jeff, your advice is as solid as a rock. As usual. No surprise there. I've been listening to your show for over 6 years! You and the Doc figured it out a long time ago. John. Link to post Share on other sites
IfiKnewThen Posted March 7, 2011 Share Posted March 7, 2011 Andrew - you seem to have the right idea and whatever transpires, you will be able to look back with your head held high, and she will respect you for that. Your own posts are among the most rational on this thread! i agree with this. anyway andrew please give us an update on your life there. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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