Beatnik Posted March 17, 2004 Share Posted March 17, 2004 OK I've been going to school with this girl for a long time, and I dont recall ever talking to her. Well she just broke up with this one guy (seems like quite a loser, pretty funny looking too ) about a week and half to 2 weeks ago and since around that time she started saying hi to me all the time. The other day I was walking up the stairs at school and she jokingly said "Come on Banky your going too slow" I said something witty and she laughed and put her hand on my shoulder. Then Friday she started walking with me and told me she was going to put this old pic of mine in the yearbook and again I made some witty comments and she laughed and touched my shoulder again. Then another day a friend of mine was sitting in the hallway with this girl and she told me to sit down and the girl said hi and started talking to me again. Then today I was walking and the girl and her best friend were hanging out RIGHT next to my best friend, so I went up to talk to him and I put my textbook down on the table, the girl saw it and said "Do you have Mrs.*****? I need a study buddy" I said sorry because I was in a different level of the class and had a different teacher. Then my best friend says "I can help you" and she was like "oh thats ok, nevermind" Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted March 17, 2004 Share Posted March 17, 2004 well with girls it's hard to tell. ok she touched you on the shoulder. that's one sign. but she could just be friendly . that's not enough signs you tell if she likes you or not what other signs do you get? Link to post Share on other sites
Sparky Posted March 17, 2004 Share Posted March 17, 2004 Oh my God! I can't believe your even wondering about it. OF COURSE SHE LIKES YOU!!!! No offense man, but you really need to open your eyes. Just think about it: She likes talking to you, she teases you, and she only wants you to help her study. If you like this girl, go for for her!! Make it soon. If you don't, you'll be kicking yourself for the rest of your life. Just talk to her more, get to know her better, become her friend (not her best friend!) and slowly move in; let her know you're interested (reach for her hand, sit close, etc.) but not too fast, or else she'll be scared off. LOL, but then again, if you're not interested, just forget about the last paragraph. Link to post Share on other sites
Sparky Posted March 17, 2004 Share Posted March 17, 2004 I agree with monkey: She could just be friendly, but she's interested in you. From my experience, girls are more courageous in showing their affection. Saying "hi", smiling, being friendly, touching you , etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beatnik Posted March 17, 2004 Author Share Posted March 17, 2004 I don't believe shes the really friendly, flirty type. In fact I rarely see her with guys. LOL I know I need to open my eyes, in fact I had my focus set on another girl so I wasn't really paying attention. Then today she today when she asked me about my class I started to think about it, and realized just how many signs I had been getting, so I posted here to get an outside opinion. My plan is to just start talking to her more, and getting her number and asking her out. But the thing is, I like this girl, but I also like and am more compatible, as far as I know, with the other girl, but no word yet on the other girl, shes kinda playing games I think. I kindof want to start dating both of em, so that way I have an opinion if one doesnt work out. Does that sound like a good idea? Link to post Share on other sites
Sparky Posted March 18, 2004 Share Posted March 18, 2004 Yeah, date them both, but not at the same time! I know that feeling your going through, it's tough chosing between two beautiful women. LOL, sounds like a soap opera, eh? . Just make your decision by looking into yourself as see you you think about the most. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beatnik Posted March 18, 2004 Author Share Posted March 18, 2004 Well, I dont even know about the one I'm more compatable with anymore, she almost never calls me back. And has yet to call me just out of the blue. I havent had a chance to flirt or even talk to the other girl since I started suspecting her being interested in me. If I can start up some convo with her I'm going to see if she wants to go to this concert I'm going to. Link to post Share on other sites
Sparky Posted March 18, 2004 Share Posted March 18, 2004 Just look into yourself, and ask yourself: "Who do I think about the most?" Talk to the other girl that hasn't responded. She's probably waiting for you to talk to her. Girls always wait for the guy to make the move to test their confidence, which they find attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts