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This is why a dumper seems to move on so quickly....


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makelemonade1974
. It's so strange - these people were once so caring, trustworthy... it's really like they flipped switches and became other people. Going behind your back to get ready to leave, without even talking about the problems in the relationship, or going behind your back and setting up a new relationship before breaking up? Ugh. We are all better off without them.

 

So true - mine actually told two mutual acquaintances (one a good friend, the other his friend) two weeks before the actual event that he was planning on leaving me. I found out later. And I swear he told one of them the night of. We went to a party at her house and the witch couldn't look me in the eye the whole night. I thought there was something fishy about it. We go home. He starts a fight. I get dumped. Voila!

 

Amazing the premeditation.

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Yeah it's still amazing how they move fast, the night I was dumbed she was already in another man bed, that was a blow to my ego :p

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We were broken up from February to May. I tried so hard to get her back, but nothing worked. When she finally started coming back into my life, she kept saying things like, "I don't know what I want" and "I need time." I kept telling her no. Apparently, those were signs that she was already moving on.

 

We got back together in May. May and June were fine. July was tough because I moved about 4 hours away. We didn't see each other for a whole month. Her calls started coming in less and I started to feel like I was losing her. Saw her in the beginning of August. Everything seemed fine again. She seemed so in love with me, even cried when I had to leave. Then we get in a fight a week later. She's distant for a week, then BAM, she breaks up with me. She had plenty of time to move on (and there was another guy, a friend I didn't even know about) and she attached herself to someone else instead of me.

 

I wonder if I'll ever get a chance, even years from now, to find out what really happened. Why things ended the way that they did.

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