EricaH329 Posted January 1, 2011 Share Posted January 1, 2011 I'd have to say that 2010 was the toughest year for me. But yet, the most rewarding. I'd have to say my biggest accomplishments were: -- Finding love and respect for myself. -- Cutting out all of the negative people in my life. -- Making a set goal for my future. -- Allowing myself the time to relfect on who I want to be, and what I want out of life. Which has led to me being single for the last 10 months (longest i've ever been single). What are you major accomplishments? I don't want to hear 'none', everyone has something. Lets hear them! :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Author EricaH329 Posted January 1, 2011 Author Share Posted January 1, 2011 Oh, just thought of another accomplishment! I quit drinking! Well, for the most part. I'll drink on a special occasion, but aside from that, it's also been the longest i've gone without drinking (since I started). Link to post Share on other sites
january2010 Posted January 1, 2011 Share Posted January 1, 2011 Happy New Year, Erica Mine are: Survived a dangerous and potentially fatal encounter without any major injuries Learnt some important life lessons Rebuilt my life Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted January 2, 2011 Share Posted January 2, 2011 Finally decided to pull my head from out of my ass for good... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t259030/ Luckily I got it in while it was still 2010... Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 2, 2011 Share Posted January 2, 2011 Finally decided to pull my head from out of my ass for good... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t259030/ Luckily I got it in while it was still 2010... Ur a cool guy USMC I hate to see you doubting urself. I also find my self questioning how a cool guy like you would choose to join the marines. If your ever in my neck of the woods I'd love to hang out. I myself acomplished a lot in 2010. I finished up my Doctorate and made many steps toward my future. 2011 has a lot of potential to it and its a time I have though of a lot for many many years now. Over a decade actualy. Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted January 2, 2011 Share Posted January 2, 2011 It's a toss-up between getting to Australia and, like J2010, surviving. In spring, I got to spend a few weeks in Oz, which is something I've always wanted to do (and want to do again, on a permanent basis), and in fall I was in a motorcycle crash that, according to the doctors, I am very lucky not to have died in. But that was probably due more to the docs and paramedics than me, and since this thread is about accomplishments, I guess Australia takes the prize. ...I so want to go back there!! Anyone know of a decent place in either Melbourne or Sydney? Link to post Share on other sites
paleblue Posted January 2, 2011 Share Posted January 2, 2011 I have to say also 2010 was a tough year. There were times I thought I was loosing it. But I realized what dignity was again, and regained mine with a vengeance. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EricaH329 Posted January 2, 2011 Author Share Posted January 2, 2011 Jan -- Happy New Year love!! I'm anxiously waiting to hear about how your night went! I haven't seen you in chat You have definitely learned a lot this year, and i'm so very proud of everything you've been working towards. You are one of the most positive, and kind people I know. 2011 will be a great year for you, I just know it! :bunny: Hokie -- Even though I wish you didn't have to go through the pain and confusion you did this year, i'm glad it happened. Now you are able to really reflect on things properly. I did read your thread, and i'm very proud of you also! We will talk more in depth about it the next Sunday Funday we go out on (I still owe you one, don't think you are getting out of it either mister!) Green -- You finished your Doctorate? That's a huge accomplishment!! Congratulations! Johnny -- Wow you traveled to Australia?! I'd love to go there! Was it for a vacation? Surviving a motorcycle accident may not be considered an accomplishment per se, but it's definitely a huge highlight. Thank goodness you came out alright!! I'm sorry you had to go through that, but i'm sure it made you reflect on life afterwards. Pale -- Isn't it awesome?! Gaining dignity and respect that you've never had before? Makes me feel very grateful for the experiences I went through, even though they were painful. In the end, I was better off than I had originally started. Link to post Share on other sites
january2010 Posted January 2, 2011 Share Posted January 2, 2011 Jan -- Happy New Year love!! I'm anxiously waiting to hear about how your night went! I haven't seen you in chat You have definitely learned a lot this year, and i'm so very proud of everything you've been working towards. You are one of the most positive, and kind people I know. 2011 will be a great year for you, I just know it! :bunny: \o/ Dinner--> fireworks --> house-warming --> late-night/early morning chat --> brunch --> hours walking into the City before catching a train home. Probably one of the busiest and most interesting NYEs I've had in a long long time. It was brilliant and much of it was planned at the last minute - those are usually the best ones. Logged into chat around lunchtime (your time) but then fell asleep and didn't wake up until this morning (my time). Had only slept for a total of 6 hours over NYE and NY day, so had a lot of sleep to catch up on. Now that we are in 2011, I feel like the world is full of wonderful possibility. I am so excited and looking forward to all the new adventures I'll be having. Of course, it's sunny right now and that always helps to put a smile on my face! Thank you for the kind words. I don't even have half of what you have in your spirit. As I wrote in chat, your positivity and kindness just shines and the vibe in the room changes immediately when you log in. I hope you continue on the path that you've decided for yourself and that 2011 brings you everything that your heart desires and more. See you in chat Link to post Share on other sites
Jannah Posted January 2, 2011 Share Posted January 2, 2011 I'd have to say that 2010 was the toughest year for me. But yet, the most rewarding. I'd have to say my biggest accomplishments were: -- Finding love and respect for myself. -- Cutting out all of the negative people in my life. -- Making a set goal for my future. -- Allowing myself the time to relfect on who I want to be, and what I want out of life. Which has led to me being single for the last 10 months (longest i've ever been single). What are you major accomplishments? I don't want to hear 'none', everyone has something. Lets hear them! :bunny: A+ My accomplishments...Let's see - Seeing my family/friends happy and our bonds strengthened. Working through and letting go of past angst and getting to a place where I am okay with the hows and whys of it. Learning to accept my shortcomings and embracing them with less dissappointment towards myself. A better relationship with myself overall. My promotion at work to management, and the nice big office + benefits that came with it and having a job that I absolutley love. Being able to hold onto my property through the economic crisis. Adding a good chunk to my retirement fund. Those are a few. Thanks E for a lovely thread. Link to post Share on other sites
no_clue Posted January 2, 2011 Share Posted January 2, 2011 Survived a deadly encoounter with an ak47 pointed at me i was almost choked out i fought back with all my strength and dashed for the door Officialy got out of the court system after 5 years Lost my virginity Started a potential new relationship with a beautiful woman Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 My career took a hit, then I rebounded to a higher level. I made good (to date) moves in my largest retirement account. I dated an ex, I feel that speaks well of my bedroom skills. I landed another lady that I've been working on for a couple of years. I began (will be finished in a few weeks) the process of cutting a negative person out of my life. I've become more organized. I returned to peak fitness after a 2 month break. I've been nice to people that I usually wouldn't be so nice too. Even people with faults have feelings and usually don't mean to be so rude. I've helped countless people with my popular thread in the fitness section. I've done better by older relatives. I reached out and hurt 3 old enemies. I looked inward and let 2 old enemies live in peace. I finally found that pea under my matress, it was causing me such discomfort, Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Recovered from knee surgery. Built a fence. Built a wall. Got a new roof. Excelled at work. Went on some dates. Supported a friend. Paid off my second mortgage. Also accelerated my rate of saving for the future. Not sure retirement is something I'm planning for. Had no pee/mattress issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Lots of people tell me that I deserve an awesome 2011 because 2010 was so sh*tty for me. I seem to have forgotten how sh*tty it was. My biggest accomplishment of 2010 was surviving and recovering from a devastating breakup, learning a lot about myself and my needs in the process, and took away a great sense of optimism along with it. I went on some dates, and wasn't really hurt when none of them worked out. I FINALLY landed my dream job (in my field, anyway), and although it included a pay cut, I couldn't be happier professionally. I got my pre-exBF fitness back and then some, and deadlifted 190 pounds. I skiied a particular difficult run, in deep powder, and did it gracefully. I made a great new friend, and strengthened relationships with several other friends. I'd say 2010 wasn't all that bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 I'm pretty amazed at what everyone accomplished! 2010 will always remain one of my favorites years ever I finished my PhD Worked abroad Landed my dream job Learned to just be myself in a relationship Learned to be more assertive Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 I'm pretty amazed at what everyone accomplished! 2010 will always remain one of my favorites years ever I finished my PhD Worked abroad Landed my dream job Learned to just be myself in a relationship Learned to be more assertive That sounds like an awesome year!!! Link to post Share on other sites
knaveman Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 I'm still here. Link to post Share on other sites
OceanGirl Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Payed off my first mortgage. Bought a new house. Made an awesome new friend. Got my hair to the exact shade of platinum blonde I have been aiming for for years Improved my relationship with my brother. Did a lot of dating, made some mistakes and learned from them. When I think of how I acted with the first guy I liked and dated after a long break, I cringe. Improved my kissing/make out skills. Had an unforgettable 5 day trip, where I had so much fun and met so many people that it's probably the highlight of my year. Link to post Share on other sites
eerie_reverie Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 -Made lots of progress in my habits as they relate to work That's about it. Link to post Share on other sites
denise_xo Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Worked butt off and got the bills paid. Link to post Share on other sites
MorningCoffee Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 No. 1 and emphatically at top of the list: SURVIVED. 2. Deeded deeply underwater property back to bank (post-crash, appraised at ~50% of mortgage balance) gaining relief from absurd debt. FICO score, SCHMICO score. 3. Moved to vibrant part of vibrant city to start anew. 4. Became a granddad for first time. 5. Maintained reasonable weight and exercised more faithfully. 6. Made new friends, tried new activities, and worked through some difficult personal issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 I made a risky commitment to making a living doing what I love here at the farm. Got an exciting website promoting my business developed and launched. Maintained and grew my relationship with dear S. Attained new goals and success with my consuming and demanding hobby/sport (sheepdog trialing). Made healthy changes to my eating and exercise habits, and thereby losing that pesky 25 pounds! Link to post Share on other sites
Author EricaH329 Posted January 4, 2011 Author Share Posted January 4, 2011 I'm pretty amazed at what everyone accomplished! I agree! I'm really impressed! It sounds like an overall good year! Now we have to strive to make this year even better! Link to post Share on other sites
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