SithLord Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 After leaving my x and then try returning to her 1 month later and getting rejected 3 times, i went into no contact for about 2 months and she recent hit me up the 22,23,25 December and January 1. I figure things didn't work out with the new guy as I heard from the grapevine. Whats troubling is, she contacted me but it wasnt something enough to try to reknindle a relationship again. I had a thorough convo with one of my fellow LS members, great guy. This case is different for me because 8 times out 10 a ex returns to want to get back with you, but in her case it hasnt happened. i was told this is how it starts and ill know she'll contact again... During my conversations i been indifferent because I really feel this way, i've been calm, cool and collective for the small talks i have had with her. i still have my feelings, but im not depress or anything, thats the only thing that troubles me she comes and go, is this part of the ex returning back process, in my heard she gone, no false hope here Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted January 3, 2011 Share Posted January 3, 2011 Sometimes it is, sometimes people return because they get bored, lonely, or curious. But at this point she really doesn't want to try to work things out with you or is scared. I'd wait till she starts contacting you on a regular basis before you really start thinking about a second chance possibly happening. Till then focus on yourself and making yourself a better person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SithLord Posted January 3, 2011 Author Share Posted January 3, 2011 Funny u say that because she contact me today and has been talking to me for hours. I never contact her so it's usually when we talk. It's like get to the point rather than giving me all this non sense talk. Is like she doesn't know what to talk to me, she dealing with stress etcccc Link to post Share on other sites
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